is NC for weak?

[JdelaSilviera]

I mean, if the girl was completly indiferent to you and texted you saying "hi" you would respond.
Isn´t it a bit transparent that you are hurt?

I agree that no contact may be necessary, in order to forget someone, but the girl will realize that she hurt your feelings, and that she is important to you. Kind of an ego boost for her right?

What do you think...

 

[EvilAgenda]

No. I don't think it's for the weak. I agree with you, when you want to get over someone, the best way, and the one that worked for me, is to cut all communication with that person, and not care what anyone says or thinks.

If she feels that she hurt your feelings, oh well, she probably did, but sh*t happens. Once again, I'd not be in a situation where she txts me because I would cut all communication with her in the 1st place.

Eventually, the best "revenge" though is to go out, have fun, increase your social circle, do things you love to do. Communicate by "No Contact" that even though she was at one point a part of your universe, she was not the center of it, and you do not need her to enjoy your life.

 

[goldengoose]

its not weak. just means you don't give a ***t about her.

 

[RSanders219]

Why is it weak to stop acknowledging a person that disrespected you? If anything, it makes you strong. You're holding your ground.

It would be weak to continue talking to this person and let them walk all over you.

 

[IamJosan]

I've thought about this too and I find that the best way to take control of the situation is to throw humor into it.

 

[Fumbduck]

WEAK?! in who's eyes? Her opinion no longer applies!

Cut your losses and move on bro