"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is my girlfriend a slut?

Suicide

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Hey dudes. Got something of an interesting situation on my hands here.

I'm 20. My girlfriend is going to be 28 in a few days. Now, we met in a club (I've got an ID) and, naturally, I ****ted her and said I was 25 (I have things together enough that I can pull it off). Now, after some time I broke my real age to her, and since essentially nothing changed except a number, we're still together and doing quite well. I wanted to clear that up--becuase any girl who's 28 and would knowingly start dating me is probably a ****-up. I'm aware of that.

Now, I've always had some issues with girl's sexual histories--maybe becuase I've come across some real *****s in the past--it's always something I'm wary of. This girl had slept with six guys (or so she says--I'm fairly sure she's not lying, everyone that knows her has told me that she's a "good girl") before me. Now, since she's 28, I'm not sure what I should be expecting in those terms given her age and such, so perhaps you older guys can give your opinions on wether her history is "acceptable" or not.

Thanks dudes
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That is one every year or 2. That is not so bad. Who knows. she could have really cared for every one of those 6
 

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This girl i was with a WHILE ago turned 17 a year ago and is up around 20.
 

The Juan and only

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six? that's not what she told me last night.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd consider you lucky. Six is nothing at that age.

I heard seven is the lifetime average in America, if that helps.
 

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On the radio they had a formula. I don't know how true it is.

Take the year the girl lost her virginity, then subtract it from her current age, then subtract out the number of years she was in a committed LTR. Then multiply that number by 2.

So if she's 28, and lost her virginity at 18, but was in a major LTR for 5 years, that's (10 years - 5)* 2 = 10 guys.

It basically says that a woman does 2 guys a year if she's not in a relationship.

Maybe that only applied to the party chick population, which listens to the radio more.

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The other thing I heard was that it was the average woman gets 8 guys in her lifetime.
 

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A girl i know told me she has had sex with 6 guys!

Shes ****ing 15!

She even cracked out the line "They were all my bfs, if that makes it any better?"

I also know a 18yr old whose had sex with 58 guys! Shocking stuff! Shes about a HB 3 too! Nice face! But a fat fat ass and body!
 

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I would go for an Anal Intruder. At 28 she should be able to handle such an abrassive move.
 

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Remember the rule of 3. Take the number of guys she claims to have slept with and multiply it by 3 and then you'll get the real number.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
Remember the rule of 3. Take the number of guys she claims to have slept with and multiply it by 3 and then you'll get the real number.
Bingo.


Biggest fear of any women is to be viewed that she is a slvt. So they will say a number wayyyy lower then it actually is.

Not all, but most.
 

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I used to lower my number sometimes, but I realized at one point that was stupid. When I got married hubby was # 12. A few of those were pointless though.
 

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im 28 and i believe that her answer was a very rare answer. be glad she isnt saying her answer is 35.(my best friends magic number)

if she lost her virginity at 16 then the odds say she only changed partners about every 2.2 yrs
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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6 guys? Damn, she can apply for sainthood.


6!

My last GF I had, while playing truth or dare, admited to having sex with over 25 guys before me.. Sounds like a lot, but she was 25.. and lost her virginity at 17... Divide 17 by 8 and you get give or take, 3 guys a year, which isn't bad... execpt she was dating a guy for 5 of thoose years .

A girl I know, who is a good friend of mine, and I wouldn't in any way classify her as a slut or a hoebag, I KNOW has slept with at least 12-15 guys and she is 22, and thoose are the ones she just doesn't mind me knowing about.
 

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Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
Remember the rule of 3. Take the number of guys she claims to have slept with and multiply it by 3 and then you'll get the real number.
damn.. if i took that rule and applied it to my ex GF, that means... she slept with my entire senior class :confused: :(
 

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I don't ask women how many guys they've slept with. Ignorance is bliss :D

It also lets me refuse to tell her how many women I've slept with.
 

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with my ex, I kinda had already put two and two together when everytime she talked about this guy she "used to know" and I would be like "oh, such and such you told me about the other day" and she woudl say "no, it's someone else".. damn near everytime.

then I would say, joking of course because she's cute when she gets flustered... "so did you suck his ****?" And she would always say "That's none of your business"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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