"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is my (female) boss trying to destroy my relationship?

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Textbook sexual harassment. complain about it to managers above her. That puts you in a protected spot.

All the diaries and proof of harassment doesn't mean disk if you didn't make a complaint.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Textbook sexual harassment. complain about it to managers above her. That puts you in a protected spot.

All the diaries and proof of harassment doesn't mean disk if you didn't make a complaint.
 

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Killing My Career said:
:)

It's a shame the point is almost always missed on the intended. But you made my day knowing that you have it hanging in your bulletin board. Thank you for posting the link. Hopefully what we've endured as employees from an ethical and illegal standpoint can help other employees learn to protect themselves as we've learned the company is out to protect the company and not the employee.
You bet. I have tried to get coworkers to hang it but they are chicken sh!ts. They all appreciate it and how it fits our environment so perfectly.
 

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sue her for sexual harassment :D
 
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