"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is my (female) boss trying to destroy my relationship?

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Textbook sexual harassment. complain about it to managers above her. That puts you in a protected spot.

All the diaries and proof of harassment doesn't mean disk if you didn't make a complaint.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Textbook sexual harassment. complain about it to managers above her. That puts you in a protected spot.

All the diaries and proof of harassment doesn't mean disk if you didn't make a complaint.
 

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Killing My Career said:
:)

It's a shame the point is almost always missed on the intended. But you made my day knowing that you have it hanging in your bulletin board. Thank you for posting the link. Hopefully what we've endured as employees from an ethical and illegal standpoint can help other employees learn to protect themselves as we've learned the company is out to protect the company and not the employee.
You bet. I have tried to get coworkers to hang it but they are chicken sh!ts. They all appreciate it and how it fits our environment so perfectly.
 

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sue her for sexual harassment :D
 
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