mrgoodstuff
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Wow. Never knew the history on HR. So i thought they thought leadership based upon gender is not a good thing?.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is "Law and Order" an insensitive term to use?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well not officially. It's what you want to believe and who you ask. But if you observe HR throughout the last 30-40 years and the fact that women work mostly in HR, it has mostly benefited them and their causes. So it may have started back in the early 1900's as one thing(personnel administration) in the USA but it has manifested into something else over the years. Now HR is just liability management for the company.
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That's because you they are from men so they don't count. It's not like a hot babe is giving you attitude. When you are in a dry-spell then if the micro aggression is coming from a woman then it's registered as a non-verbal rejection. I know it's mixing apples and oranges for me to go there, but I don't care about micro-aggressions from men. If a hot woman is giving you attitude or a micro-aggression and you are in a dry-spell for a long-time and are thirsty then it's more relevant.
Women are d@mn near psychic when it comes to identifying men under a dry spell..... that's why it's virtually impossible for guys to fake an abundance mentality.....
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Micro aggressions right...stuff like going into a bar and being ignored from the bar girls till you call them cause you're skinny and beta looking?
It's called getting feedbacks according to what your vibes, just like when a homeless people comes toward you and you speed up your pace.
Everyone is very sensitive when stuff happens to them while feel there is nothing wrong when its them doing the same.
It's called getting feedbacks according to what your vibes, just like when a homeless people comes toward you and you speed up your pace.
Everyone is very sensitive when stuff happens to them while feel there is nothing wrong when its them doing the same.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Maybe they were simps?
It's possible, but I tend to think that we as men hardwired to accommodate women before other men.....
I must admit that I personally give a bigger tip to waitresses than waiters.... and I especially give bigger tips to pretty waitresses over homely-looking waitresses...
This could be the case over the gas attendent being racist. Kinda reminds me of Dave Chappelle's keeping it real skit when one assumes the wrong thing... Lol
There is indeed a disconnect when Party A uses "Law and Order" in one context, but Party B misunderstands or misconstrues Party A's meaning to something totally different - this is a form of spinning someone's words to further a narrative...