"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is "Law and Order" an insensitive term to use?

Is "Law and Order" an insensitive term?


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mrgoodstuff

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I agree with you about men that can be sapiosexual. All I'm saying is that is a term just like many other terms lately that has been created by females and that's what's annoying. What's wrong with people just saying they are looking for someone smart? And I find it ironic that the same gals that say they are sapiosexual are on the dating apps swiping left on most guys based solely on their looks. Hypocritical if you ask me.

Google had many women controversies so they are pretty much enslaved to the government and females right now. Females, simps, beta losers walked off the job to force their agendas on them while ago to have them conform to females through social pressures. Really pitiful and soon those same simps that participated in the walkout and protest is going to be working like a dog and enslaved by the same females they helped out as they will end up being their bosses.

As for Human Resources, that was solely created by females and men that are pvssy's initially but then companies uses that for liability protection now.
Wow. Never knew the history on HR. So i thought they thought leadership based upon gender is not a good thing?.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lookatu

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Wow. Never knew the history on HR. So i thought they thought leadership based upon gender is not a good thing?.
Well not officially. It's what you want to believe and who you ask. But if you observe HR throughout the last 30-40 years and the fact that women work mostly in HR, it has mostly benefited them and their causes. So it may have started back in the early 1900's as one thing(personnel administration) in the USA but it has manifested into something else over the years. Now HR is just liability management for the company.
 

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The attendants were Middle Eastern. In the grand scheme of things these are micro aggressions so very subtle and not serious enough to ruin a day. Was just making the point they exist. Maybe as @Lookatu says, women are the ones making a huge deal out of it.
That's because you they are from men so they don't count. It's not like a hot babe is giving you attitude. When you are in a dry-spell then if the micro aggression is coming from a woman then it's registered as a non-verbal rejection. I know it's mixing apples and oranges for me to go there, but I don't care about micro-aggressions from men. If a hot woman is giving you attitude or a micro-aggression and you are in a dry-spell for a long-time and are thirsty then it's more relevant.
 

Xenom0rph

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That's because you they are from men so they don't count. It's not like a hot babe is giving you attitude. When you are in a dry-spell then if the micro aggression is coming from a woman then it's registered as a non-verbal rejection. I know it's mixing apples and oranges for me to go there, but I don't care about micro-aggressions from men. If a hot woman is giving you attitude or a micro-aggression and you are in a dry-spell for a long-time and are thirsty then it's more relevant.
Women are d@mn near psychic when it comes to identifying men under a dry spell..... that's why it's virtually impossible for guys to fake an abundance mentality.....
 

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Micro aggressions right...stuff like going into a bar and being ignored from the bar girls till you call them cause you're skinny and beta looking?

It's called getting feedbacks according to what your vibes, just like when a homeless people comes toward you and you speed up your pace.

Everyone is very sensitive when stuff happens to them while feel there is nothing wrong when its them doing the same.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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I’ll give a recent example. In New Jersey, we cant pump our own fuel (state law), so attendants do it for us. It’s first come first serve. I’ve had attendants walk right past the hood of my car to go try and service white women on the complete opposite side of the gas station despite them just pulling in. Of course I get out of the car and say something. Am I invisible?
Maybe they were simps?
 

Xenom0rph

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Maybe they were simps?
It's possible, but I tend to think that we as men hardwired to accommodate women before other men.....

I must admit that I personally give a bigger tip to waitresses than waiters.... and I especially give bigger tips to pretty waitresses over homely-looking waitresses...
 

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It's possible, but I tend to think that we as men hardwired to accommodate women before other men.....
This could be the case over the gas attendent being racist. Kinda reminds me of Dave Chappelle's keeping it real skit when one assumes the wrong thing... Lol

 

Xenom0rph

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Depends on who is hearing it?
There is indeed a disconnect when Party A uses "Law and Order" in one context, but Party B misunderstands or misconstrues Party A's meaning to something totally different - this is a form of spinning someone's words to further a narrative...
 
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