"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is "Law and Order" an insensitive term to use?

Is "Law and Order" an insensitive term?


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mrgoodstuff

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I agree with you about men that can be sapiosexual. All I'm saying is that is a term just like many other terms lately that has been created by females and that's what's annoying. What's wrong with people just saying they are looking for someone smart? And I find it ironic that the same gals that say they are sapiosexual are on the dating apps swiping left on most guys based solely on their looks. Hypocritical if you ask me.

Google had many women controversies so they are pretty much enslaved to the government and females right now. Females, simps, beta losers walked off the job to force their agendas on them while ago to have them conform to females through social pressures. Really pitiful and soon those same simps that participated in the walkout and protest is going to be working like a dog and enslaved by the same females they helped out as they will end up being their bosses.

As for Human Resources, that was solely created by females and men that are pvssy's initially but then companies uses that for liability protection now.
Wow. Never knew the history on HR. So i thought they thought leadership based upon gender is not a good thing?.
 

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Lookatu

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Wow. Never knew the history on HR. So i thought they thought leadership based upon gender is not a good thing?.
Well not officially. It's what you want to believe and who you ask. But if you observe HR throughout the last 30-40 years and the fact that women work mostly in HR, it has mostly benefited them and their causes. So it may have started back in the early 1900's as one thing(personnel administration) in the USA but it has manifested into something else over the years. Now HR is just liability management for the company.
 

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The attendants were Middle Eastern. In the grand scheme of things these are micro aggressions so very subtle and not serious enough to ruin a day. Was just making the point they exist. Maybe as @Lookatu says, women are the ones making a huge deal out of it.
That's because you they are from men so they don't count. It's not like a hot babe is giving you attitude. When you are in a dry-spell then if the micro aggression is coming from a woman then it's registered as a non-verbal rejection. I know it's mixing apples and oranges for me to go there, but I don't care about micro-aggressions from men. If a hot woman is giving you attitude or a micro-aggression and you are in a dry-spell for a long-time and are thirsty then it's more relevant.
 

Xenom0rph

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That's because you they are from men so they don't count. It's not like a hot babe is giving you attitude. When you are in a dry-spell then if the micro aggression is coming from a woman then it's registered as a non-verbal rejection. I know it's mixing apples and oranges for me to go there, but I don't care about micro-aggressions from men. If a hot woman is giving you attitude or a micro-aggression and you are in a dry-spell for a long-time and are thirsty then it's more relevant.
Women are d@mn near psychic when it comes to identifying men under a dry spell..... that's why it's virtually impossible for guys to fake an abundance mentality.....
 

Who Dares Win

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Micro aggressions right...stuff like going into a bar and being ignored from the bar girls till you call them cause you're skinny and beta looking?

It's called getting feedbacks according to what your vibes, just like when a homeless people comes toward you and you speed up your pace.

Everyone is very sensitive when stuff happens to them while feel there is nothing wrong when its them doing the same.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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zekko

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I’ll give a recent example. In New Jersey, we cant pump our own fuel (state law), so attendants do it for us. It’s first come first serve. I’ve had attendants walk right past the hood of my car to go try and service white women on the complete opposite side of the gas station despite them just pulling in. Of course I get out of the car and say something. Am I invisible?
Maybe they were simps?
 

Xenom0rph

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Maybe they were simps?
It's possible, but I tend to think that we as men hardwired to accommodate women before other men.....

I must admit that I personally give a bigger tip to waitresses than waiters.... and I especially give bigger tips to pretty waitresses over homely-looking waitresses...
 

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It's possible, but I tend to think that we as men hardwired to accommodate women before other men.....
This could be the case over the gas attendent being racist. Kinda reminds me of Dave Chappelle's keeping it real skit when one assumes the wrong thing... Lol

 

Xenom0rph

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Depends on who is hearing it?
There is indeed a disconnect when Party A uses "Law and Order" in one context, but Party B misunderstands or misconstrues Party A's meaning to something totally different - this is a form of spinning someone's words to further a narrative...
 
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