"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tryst type

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Thoughtful? ie makin/buying really small items to highlight a previous moment with a girl that you've been dating/gf?

Personal example: fooling around pretty hard one night and all her bobby pins happened to disappear. 2 days later noticed a handful pack cheap at the store, bought and gave to her with a wink.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LeComteDeMonteCristo

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Stop worrying about being "wussy". If you felt it was the right thing to do then it was the right thing to do.

Just let go of any expectation that you will get anything in return and don't make such a big deal out of such a simple thing.
 
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i probably wouldn't do it, but I don't know what the right answer is. Probably depends on how long you've been going out. (the longer --> the more thoughtful you can be)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There's nothing wrong with buying a girl something, in fact there's nothing wrong with complimenting her too. The common misconception this board has is that we have to be jackasses in order to attract women and we can't show a hint of niceness. There's two kinds of nice; seeking one's approval in order to be accepted, and being thoughtful and considerate. What most nice guys fall into is the former, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with the latter. And there is a huge difference between the two; women will decipher which nice you're doing through body language, voice tone, etc. Just don't milk your niceness.
 
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War Against Betaism said:
There's nothing wrong with buying a girl something, in fact there's nothing wrong with complimenting her too. The common misconception this board has is that we have to be jackasses in order to attract women and we can't show a hint of niceness. There's two kinds of nice; seeking one's approval in order to be accepted, and being thoughtful and considerate. What most nice guys fall into is the former, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with the latter. And there is a huge difference between the two; women will decipher which nice you're doing through body language, voice tone, etc. Just don't milk your niceness.
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Very good advice, The Alpha male is considerate and thoughtful along with all the other qualities.
 
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