Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
we need more guys like you..KontrollerX said:Wrong or right is up to each person to decide for themselves.
A true DJ has many options to choose from so it only makes sense that a DJ would go for the most hassle/drama free option that being one of the many single chicks he knows.
Going after some chick thats in a marriage or LTR screams of being a bottom feeder who is scraping for anything he can get. Thats not DJ thats pathetic.
Plus if the idea is to secure a relationship with this chick guess what you are now involved with someone whose character is that of a cheater which makes the odds high that she will eventually cheat on you too if something she perceives as better comes along.
If a DJ is just in it for sex though wrong or right depends on how he will feel about himself in the morning.
Will he feel like a man or will he feel like a piece of sh!t that just did something he would never want to happen to him?
And hey if its the first answer then more power to that guy.
I couldn't look in the mirror the next morning after doing something like that and still feel like a man or a DJ.
I'd feel like bottom feeding scum that betrayed my own values.
So to close again it all depends on what you can live with.
Its an individual answer.
-vagrant said:we need more guys like you..
people these days just do what other people tell them to do or whatever other people say they should do..
imagine if they listen to you..
what better world will have!~
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
aliasguy said:-
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Kumbaya, everyone!!!
How about a "better world"?
Let's all make one.
HAHAHAHA!!!!!
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SayWord? said:you cant steal girls from other dudes
the girls willingly come to you
the do it on their own will
Kev07 said:Shut the fvck up.
And no, I wouldn't steal another guy's girlfriend, unless he's a douche.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
jt the azn said:If I implicitly seduce a girl, so that she feels attraction towards me, a.k.a. going under the radar, is it wrong to steal a girl from a guy?
Who's fault would it be if it escalates?
-KontrollerX said:Hey aliasguy I saw you and jophil kind of get into it in a thread a while back and while Joe and I agree on things I just want you to know I personally don't hate you for your mindset as I think you may of suggested those of us with opposing views hate guys like you for it.
Really its like I said in my post above its all about what a person can live with.
I'd hate myself if I lived your way as I'm sure you'd hate yourself if you lived my way.
I respect your views as you respected mine in that one thread and made it clear even if we don't share eachothers views.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.