Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
we need more guys like you..KontrollerX said:Wrong or right is up to each person to decide for themselves.
A true DJ has many options to choose from so it only makes sense that a DJ would go for the most hassle/drama free option that being one of the many single chicks he knows.
Going after some chick thats in a marriage or LTR screams of being a bottom feeder who is scraping for anything he can get. Thats not DJ thats pathetic.
Plus if the idea is to secure a relationship with this chick guess what you are now involved with someone whose character is that of a cheater which makes the odds high that she will eventually cheat on you too if something she perceives as better comes along.
If a DJ is just in it for sex though wrong or right depends on how he will feel about himself in the morning.
Will he feel like a man or will he feel like a piece of sh!t that just did something he would never want to happen to him?
And hey if its the first answer then more power to that guy.
I couldn't look in the mirror the next morning after doing something like that and still feel like a man or a DJ.
I'd feel like bottom feeding scum that betrayed my own values.
So to close again it all depends on what you can live with.
Its an individual answer.
-vagrant said:we need more guys like you..
people these days just do what other people tell them to do or whatever other people say they should do..
imagine if they listen to you..
what better world will have!~
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
aliasguy said:-
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Kumbaya, everyone!!!
How about a "better world"?
Let's all make one.
HAHAHAHA!!!!!
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SayWord? said:you cant steal girls from other dudes
the girls willingly come to you
the do it on their own will
Kev07 said:Shut the fvck up.
And no, I wouldn't steal another guy's girlfriend, unless he's a douche.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jt the azn said:If I implicitly seduce a girl, so that she feels attraction towards me, a.k.a. going under the radar, is it wrong to steal a girl from a guy?
Who's fault would it be if it escalates?
-KontrollerX said:Hey aliasguy I saw you and jophil kind of get into it in a thread a while back and while Joe and I agree on things I just want you to know I personally don't hate you for your mindset as I think you may of suggested those of us with opposing views hate guys like you for it.
Really its like I said in my post above its all about what a person can live with.
I'd hate myself if I lived your way as I'm sure you'd hate yourself if you lived my way.
I respect your views as you respected mine in that one thread and made it clear even if we don't share eachothers views.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.