You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
we need more guys like you..KontrollerX said:Wrong or right is up to each person to decide for themselves.
A true DJ has many options to choose from so it only makes sense that a DJ would go for the most hassle/drama free option that being one of the many single chicks he knows.
Going after some chick thats in a marriage or LTR screams of being a bottom feeder who is scraping for anything he can get. Thats not DJ thats pathetic.
Plus if the idea is to secure a relationship with this chick guess what you are now involved with someone whose character is that of a cheater which makes the odds high that she will eventually cheat on you too if something she perceives as better comes along.
If a DJ is just in it for sex though wrong or right depends on how he will feel about himself in the morning.
Will he feel like a man or will he feel like a piece of sh!t that just did something he would never want to happen to him?
And hey if its the first answer then more power to that guy.
I couldn't look in the mirror the next morning after doing something like that and still feel like a man or a DJ.
I'd feel like bottom feeding scum that betrayed my own values.
So to close again it all depends on what you can live with.
Its an individual answer.
-vagrant said:we need more guys like you..
people these days just do what other people tell them to do or whatever other people say they should do..
imagine if they listen to you..
what better world will have!~
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
aliasguy said:-
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Kumbaya, everyone!!!
How about a "better world"?
Let's all make one.
HAHAHAHA!!!!!
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SayWord? said:you cant steal girls from other dudes
the girls willingly come to you
the do it on their own will
Kev07 said:Shut the fvck up.
And no, I wouldn't steal another guy's girlfriend, unless he's a douche.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
jt the azn said:If I implicitly seduce a girl, so that she feels attraction towards me, a.k.a. going under the radar, is it wrong to steal a girl from a guy?
Who's fault would it be if it escalates?
-KontrollerX said:Hey aliasguy I saw you and jophil kind of get into it in a thread a while back and while Joe and I agree on things I just want you to know I personally don't hate you for your mindset as I think you may of suggested those of us with opposing views hate guys like you for it.
Really its like I said in my post above its all about what a person can live with.
I'd hate myself if I lived your way as I'm sure you'd hate yourself if you lived my way.
I respect your views as you respected mine in that one thread and made it clear even if we don't share eachothers views.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.