picard
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is it wrong to date a chick in her 26-30?
I am 15yrs older than her.
I am 15yrs older than her.
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is it wrong to date a chick in her 26-30?
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Its wrong only if with some little more work you could get chicks in the 18-25 range.picard said:
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Regardless of a man's age, it's only wrong to date a girl under 18 only by arbitrary legal standards. By the natural order standards, it is only wrong to date a girl who's premenstrual and not physically and mentally sexually developed or let say under about 15 years old as a generality.
If a girl is over 18 years old and is interested in you and you are interested in her regardless of your age then of course it's not wrong. It's only wrong to the haters of male sexuality in society. It is wrong for a younger guy say in his 20's to date older women say 30's and 40's though as is being gay but society says that it's OK .
26-30? Why woukld any guy want one older than that? Women don't improve or mature after 26. They just get older and more messed up.
If a girl is over 18 years old and is interested in you and you are interested in her regardless of your age then of course it's not wrong. It's only wrong to the haters of male sexuality in society. It is wrong for a younger guy say in his 20's to date older women say 30's and 40's though as is being gay but society says that it's OK .
26-30? Why woukld any guy want one older than that? Women don't improve or mature after 26. They just get older and more messed up.
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Good Job!picard said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
picard
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well my friend said she is seems too young for me.MatureDJ said:
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Dear Picard,
No its never wrong,15-17 years is not too big an age gap....but tie a knot in it ,because they are all hard wired to want marriage,and/or kids...that's really not on,been there done that.....So,only do it on the basis that the relationship has a use by date,and don't try too hard to hold her when she decides,enough is enough....Not being judgemental,but every Woman,just like you,has the right to achieve her only tangible reason for being on the planet...Keep spinning Plates,so the inevitable parting doesn't hurt too much....
I believe I have found the perfect solution.....Educated Chinese Women,from a good Social background....They rarely stray,stay slim,are highly intelligent,and at your age look 30'ish.....also they have been raised to believe they are born to serve,and find joy in that service,again,to generalise,they seem to have no higher libido than their Western counterparts,but do it on demand quite cheerfully,as a chore maybe?but does it matter what colour the Cat is if it catches Mice?
No its never wrong,15-17 years is not too big an age gap....but tie a knot in it ,because they are all hard wired to want marriage,and/or kids...that's really not on,been there done that.....So,only do it on the basis that the relationship has a use by date,and don't try too hard to hold her when she decides,enough is enough....Not being judgemental,but every Woman,just like you,has the right to achieve her only tangible reason for being on the planet...Keep spinning Plates,so the inevitable parting doesn't hurt too much....
I believe I have found the perfect solution.....Educated Chinese Women,from a good Social background....They rarely stray,stay slim,are highly intelligent,and at your age look 30'ish.....also they have been raised to believe they are born to serve,and find joy in that service,again,to generalise,they seem to have no higher libido than their Western counterparts,but do it on demand quite cheerfully,as a chore maybe?but does it matter what colour the Cat is if it catches Mice?
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Heck no, it's only wrong to fall hard for her.picard said:
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No, it isn't .picard said:
It would be wrong not dating her because someone on this board told you so .
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Yes it's wrong,..
If you're a 45 y.o., long post-Wall, spinster living alone with 3 cats and want to shame all the 'boy-men' who want to bang the 26-30 y.o. hotties they can never hope to compete with for your attentions.
You're a bad, bad maaaan,..
https://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/the-mature-man/
If you're a 45 y.o., long post-Wall, spinster living alone with 3 cats and want to shame all the 'boy-men' who want to bang the 26-30 y.o. hotties they can never hope to compete with for your attentions.
You're a bad, bad maaaan,..
https://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/the-mature-man/
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.