picard
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is it wrong to date a chick in her 26-30?
I am 15yrs older than her.
I am 15yrs older than her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
is it wrong to date a chick in her 26-30?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Its wrong only if with some little more work you could get chicks in the 18-25 range.picard said:
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Regardless of a man's age, it's only wrong to date a girl under 18 only by arbitrary legal standards. By the natural order standards, it is only wrong to date a girl who's premenstrual and not physically and mentally sexually developed or let say under about 15 years old as a generality.
If a girl is over 18 years old and is interested in you and you are interested in her regardless of your age then of course it's not wrong. It's only wrong to the haters of male sexuality in society. It is wrong for a younger guy say in his 20's to date older women say 30's and 40's though as is being gay but society says that it's OK .
26-30? Why woukld any guy want one older than that? Women don't improve or mature after 26. They just get older and more messed up.
If a girl is over 18 years old and is interested in you and you are interested in her regardless of your age then of course it's not wrong. It's only wrong to the haters of male sexuality in society. It is wrong for a younger guy say in his 20's to date older women say 30's and 40's though as is being gay but society says that it's OK .
26-30? Why woukld any guy want one older than that? Women don't improve or mature after 26. They just get older and more messed up.
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Good Job!picard said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
picard
Master Don Juan
well my friend said she is seems too young for me.MatureDJ said:
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Picard,
No its never wrong,15-17 years is not too big an age gap....but tie a knot in it ,because they are all hard wired to want marriage,and/or kids...that's really not on,been there done that.....So,only do it on the basis that the relationship has a use by date,and don't try too hard to hold her when she decides,enough is enough....Not being judgemental,but every Woman,just like you,has the right to achieve her only tangible reason for being on the planet...Keep spinning Plates,so the inevitable parting doesn't hurt too much....
I believe I have found the perfect solution.....Educated Chinese Women,from a good Social background....They rarely stray,stay slim,are highly intelligent,and at your age look 30'ish.....also they have been raised to believe they are born to serve,and find joy in that service,again,to generalise,they seem to have no higher libido than their Western counterparts,but do it on demand quite cheerfully,as a chore maybe?but does it matter what colour the Cat is if it catches Mice?
No its never wrong,15-17 years is not too big an age gap....but tie a knot in it ,because they are all hard wired to want marriage,and/or kids...that's really not on,been there done that.....So,only do it on the basis that the relationship has a use by date,and don't try too hard to hold her when she decides,enough is enough....Not being judgemental,but every Woman,just like you,has the right to achieve her only tangible reason for being on the planet...Keep spinning Plates,so the inevitable parting doesn't hurt too much....
I believe I have found the perfect solution.....Educated Chinese Women,from a good Social background....They rarely stray,stay slim,are highly intelligent,and at your age look 30'ish.....also they have been raised to believe they are born to serve,and find joy in that service,again,to generalise,they seem to have no higher libido than their Western counterparts,but do it on demand quite cheerfully,as a chore maybe?but does it matter what colour the Cat is if it catches Mice?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
Heck no, it's only wrong to fall hard for her.picard said:
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rafasch
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No, it isn't .picard said:
It would be wrong not dating her because someone on this board told you so .
Rollo Tomassi
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Yes it's wrong,..
If you're a 45 y.o., long post-Wall, spinster living alone with 3 cats and want to shame all the 'boy-men' who want to bang the 26-30 y.o. hotties they can never hope to compete with for your attentions.
You're a bad, bad maaaan,..
https://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/the-mature-man/
If you're a 45 y.o., long post-Wall, spinster living alone with 3 cats and want to shame all the 'boy-men' who want to bang the 26-30 y.o. hotties they can never hope to compete with for your attentions.
You're a bad, bad maaaan,..
https://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/the-mature-man/
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.