"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it worth taking a 6 to the club or will she lower my value?

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I started talking about sex with my friend who is a girl. After a while, she invited my friend and I to go to the club next weekend. Shes like a 6, could I still use her as a wing women? Though shes smart and rich ( her dad recently bought a maserati ), shes not stuck up or anything though. Shes even down to pick me up and drop me off and be the designated driver. Shes got an SUV and said if one of us picks up a woman we could even use her car to get laid haha. Shes trying to get laid too. Ive actually never been to a club before ( Im 20 ) so i really dont know what to expect.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chamber36

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go have fun
 

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You have never been to a club. Well, here is the chance for you to experience something new.
 

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Dude, no matter how the girl looks, never think like this, never. Looks is unimportant unless she is much less attractive to males than you to females. Look at a persons brain, you will attract much better people this way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If all you ever care about is wrapping paper, you will spend your life unwrapping t*rds.

Give zero f*cks what other people think about you. And that is what you are worrying about - what other people think.
 

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The question is, does a woman with a Maserati want to be seen hanging out with a 20 year old man?
 

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Hang with positive people , if she is smart and rich then her true value is around 7-8 wife material.
The best wives are from 6-8. Who knows , maybe you will be getting a luxury car for your birthday on day.

I don't flirt with the 9-10 zone , simple pump and dump ...most girls in that zone are either crazy or self entitled because of these idiots throwing themselves at their beauty.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I might be in the minority on this but I dated a 6 for about 5 months and ALWAYS felt weird with her in public. I was often told I was out of her league. Maybe my trepidation was more so a result of her anti social attitude...
 

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lol wow I wasnt expecting to get this many responses but thanks, everything you guys said makes a lot of sense. But I am not into her or anything, ive known her for like 6 months, since she was in two of my classes last semester and is in one of my classes this semester. I have no attraction for her, were just going to the club, she'll be a wing women, id even be willing to wing for her to get her laid haha. We're definitely going this friday. Ill finally get to see what the club scene is like lol.
 

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Why are you so insecure with how you'll look with her? What are you a 9 or something? C'mon. A 6 isn't even supposed to be ugly. At least she's not a 2
 

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Meisterman said:
Why are you so insecure with how you'll look with her? What are you a 9 or something? C'mon. A 6 isn't even supposed to be ugly. At least she's not a 2
haha, honestly I was being generous when I gave her a 6, shes probably like a 5/6. Shes not ugly though, shes like whatever. Id give myself like an 8.
My scale is pretty weighted though as Im a little picky, to the average person shes probably a really solid 6 - higher if you consider she is smart and fairly rich, she also has fairly large breasts.
Shes also very sexual, she was telling us how she thinks sex isnt a big deal and how theres no difference between a girl that had sex with 100 men and a girl that had sex with 1 guy 100 times.
IMO, she really wants to get laid haha.


Espi said:
You won't control others' reactions. You want to get to a place where your happiness and comfort doesn't involve others' approval.
Thats true. Ive recently realized this and I can say it has made me into a better/happier person.

Thanks everyone for responding.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bigneil said:
The question is, does a woman with a Maserati want to be seen hanging out with a 20 year old man?
That's exactly the way I looked at it. How is he to rate her "value" on looks alone, it sounds like she has a lot more going on than that...
 

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Also don't forget - you never know the kinds of friends a girl could possibly introduce you to. I have the same kind of friend, she's honestly a 4 or 5 on a good day, but she's a really nice girl with a big heart. Not only did she introduce me to a really good looking friend of hers once (8 in the looks department), she put in a good word for me which was helpful if you know what I mean :)
 

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Ok, so according to the OP she is a 6.

What is the OP's rating?

If he is an 8, it will make him look worse. If he is a 4, it will make him look better. If he is 5-7 then it's normal.
 

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ChemGod said:
Is it worth taking a 6 to the club or will she lower my value? .
Well, it depends. If you are a 4 yourself, she will probably raise your value.
:rolleyes:

Oops, I forgot, everybody on this forum thinks they are 8s or higher. In that case, if you're really an 8, it's not likely that some girl will be able to reduce your value, unless she is a real hosebeast. Then people might wonder what the heck is wrong with you.

I find HB6s to be very doable. That's about as low as I would go, but they are still within acceptable range. Wouldn't be ashamed to be seen with one at all.

EDITED TO SAY: Bigneil beat me to it!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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