Ok about a week ago this girl started show interest in me and started flirting with me in class quite a bit. One bad thing is one of her best friends and I are enemies. But I'm not gonna let that stop me I'm just afraid she'll like put in the bad word. Ok my main question is is it too early after about a week of flirting to ask her to lunch and stuff? If I do then she'll know I have interest in me and I don't want her to just suddenly turn cold.
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Is it too early?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No it's not. But understand what sh*t you're getting into. Best friends that you don't like call for her choosing between them and you when she has the choice who to be with. They can be ****ing problems. I've dealt with this situation twice by seducing the best friend while I was dating the other.
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Yeah, that's just gay.
Number 1a, don't fake interest in a girl to get with her friend. It's just wasted effort because...
Number 1b - In 5 years, you'll look back and realize in the however many weeks or months you spent trying to sneak in with this girl and disarm the friend, you could have been loving life, having a great time, playing sports, watching tv, chilling out, joking, relaxing, getting good grades, etc. etc...basically ENJOYING LIFE.
But who am I to say, you know - it's your life, do with it what you please. But don't disrespect yourself by being a lowlife.
Never gave mixed signals.. just seduced ;-p.
These issues are a real ***** and yeah, if it doesn't work out right you would have spent way too much time on that. By way too much time, I mean way too much wasted time. It's a real ****ing pain guy so if you havn't ever dealt with it, I don't suggest you do. You can, but realise that it's going to be a B*TCH.
If you have to go really out of your way for this to work, then drop it.
Lik
These issues are a real ***** and yeah, if it doesn't work out right you would have spent way too much time on that. By way too much time, I mean way too much wasted time. It's a real ****ing pain guy so if you havn't ever dealt with it, I don't suggest you do. You can, but realise that it's going to be a B*TCH.
If you have to go really out of your way for this to work, then drop it.
Lik
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