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Is it the norm for a girl to have 25+ sex partners...

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My girl got 30 bodies by 32 years old, sadly I learned the info after I been with her 2 years.
Dios mio, puta madre, what the ****. Insta-dump, delete number, block number, throw her out, delete memory. Go to a Balkan village and buy a virgin waifu for 10k € and you never have to worry about a notch, or her not cooking and cleaning. She probably can't read but that means she won't know what social media is anyways. Also interesting to see how she gets scared when you take care of yourself, gives her the extra dose of guilt and feeling dirty about herself.

Back in the day hiding this kind of info was reason for annulment of marriage and no ****s given.
 

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Dios mio, puta madre, what the ****. Insta-dump, delete number, block number, throw her out, delete memory. Go to a Balkan village and buy a virgin waifu for 10k € and you never have to worry about a notch, or her not cooking and cleaning. She probably can't read but that means she won't know what social media is anyways. Also interesting to see how she gets scared when you take care of yourself, gives her the extra dose of guilt and feeling dirty about herself.

Back in the day hiding this kind of info was reason for annulment of marriage and no ****s given.
Haha, I know, however, she's a great girl in her personality. My family and friends love her and advise me against leaving (I will be leaving anyway). To me, she has done nothing wrong, no attitude, no orbiters, no social media BS.

However she comes with an abortion (I'm against it), a stalker (dude is now in his 50s, she was with him when she was 2 he was 40 (makes me sick) and whatever else has happened.

It's a learning opportunity for me. I met her at a low point in my life and over the last few years I have just been excelling. Men peak at 38 apparently which seems true to my life (I'm 33).
 

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This can't be possible.
My girl got 30 bodies by 32 years old, sadly I learned the info after I been with her 2 years.
I'm so conflicted between hating and loving her. She shows 0 signs or traits of being a hoe, but she was/is a hoe.
Since I learned this info a few months ago I've been working out extra hard, quit all drugs (I used to do coke or weed on the odd occasion) and stopped drinking.
^^This might explain why you've missed the red flags.
 

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This can't be possible.



^^This might explain why you've missed the red flags.
That's exactly why, I met her in a chaotic moment, weirdly we grew together, I'm looking back on threads I made here in 2019 about it and thinking "Murk wtf were you thinking, RUN".
 
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I don't think 25 sex partners for a woman by her 25th birthday is the norm. There are too many women in some sort of extended relationship during high school, college (if attending), and early 20s for her to put up that notch count.
It's easy to tell if a girl has a high count or not like in similar to how a guy is a virgin or not. A girl can lie to you about her body count, but her behavior and bedroom experience will definitely say otherwise.
 
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I forget where I cribbed this from and enhanced it slightly:


"I've only had sex with five guys."

Translation: I've had five boyfriends, who I regularly had sex with but never anal, and then were lucky to get their ****s sucked twice a month. I've also had sex once inside a bathroom stall at a club, but that doesn't count because I was drunk. I've sucked the **** of eight other guys, but that's not sex, and then there was the time I tried anal sex, but it only lasted for five seconds, and after that, I was pissed at the guy for sticking his **** in my ass, so I left immediately, so that doesn't count. I've had four guys eat me out on the first date, and I sucked them off so that I wouldn't have to have sex with them because I'm a good girl, and I don't have sex on the first date. Then there are the three guys that I had sex with on the first date, but that doesn't count, because they said that they just needed to use my bathroom and then they ended up in my vagina, but that doesn't matter, because it just happened and I never texted them again. I also had sex with two guys in high school. Still, it wasn't really sex because they didn't know what they were doing and came in under a minute, so I didn't technically lose my virginity until I had sex with my first boyfriend in college, but not before I sucked another three different ****s during orientation week. But that doesn't count because it was a crazy time in my life.
 

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The issue is that in peer reviewed studies using government data from census and marriage records, and healthcare providers (anonymized) that women’s ability to bond with long term partners is negatively affected by their lay count. Men do not get affected similarly.

I see sex differently now than I used to. Before I couldn't stop thinking about my ex having sex with other guys, but now I guess I'm slowly moving on. My ex was my first and so I was to her. Needless to say she's been with two guys now after we broke up. She still drives me crazy sometimes. I've made out with a few girls after the break up, but no sex, and to this day I still think about her.

Anyways, for me sex is a way for both men and women to have fun period. I don't care about the girls' number anymore, because the number to me does not tell what kind of person she is. The way I see it, I can f*ck as many girls as I can and at the end of the day I'm still that same person, you know what I mean?

What matters to me is how she is as a person and how we get along.

To answer your question though, I feel 25 before the age of 20 is very high. My ex just turned 20 and she's been with probably 3 guys including me. Don't ask how I know. We all have that one girl who we messed up on. Most of the girls I know are at their early 20s and from what I know most of them hasn't even reached 5 yet. Most of them are Asians which are more into exclusivity I guess. 25 is definitely a high number to me unless you are a guy who happens to be a real dj, then you should be at least dating 3 girls at the same time and just f*cking girls left and right.
 

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Very unlikely, you just admitted that she is a hoe, multiply her body count by 12, that would be 360 bodies, which is more likely
No I found the list in her phone and rounded up to 30, I came as close as a man can come to finding the real number. Her defence was she was young and that number could have been much higher which I don’t doubt but 30 is still 30
 

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My girl got 30 bodies by 32 years old, sadly I learned the info after I been with her 2 years.
That's not unheard of and that alone isn't a reason to end an interaction. It is a reason to avoid the entanglements of legal marriage and babies with her.

Her defence was she was young and that number could have been much higher which I don’t doubt but 30 is still 30
Women can run up a body count nearly as high as they can imagine. A lot of women age 25+ have demanding careers getting in the way of putting up new notches. As an example, female lawyers work a lot of hours. That has a tendency to vagina block themselves from getting new penis simply because they can't spend as much time going out to bars or gyms to get approached or show up at bars from swipe app arranged dates. Also, a lot of women are super entitled and super fussy about the penises they let into their bodies. It's possible that a woman has sex with 10 sex men from 2 years of swipe app use, but she had 50+ "one date, no sex, no second date interactions" and she also flaked on 200+ app conversations during that time.

Go to a Balkan village and buy a virgin waifu for 10k € and you never have to worry about a notch, or her not cooking and cleaning. She probably can't read but that means she won't know what social media is anyways.
That woman right there is a woman that would be a good candidate for marriage and family. That's the kind of woman that a man could build a life around, like men did in the 1940s-1950s.

I've spent my life in the United States. Post college, I have lived in 2 of the 15 biggest US metro areas. I've typically interacted with White women with bachelor's degrees or higher. Would you marry any of those women? At best, you can get a decent girlfriend from that pool but not a woman that would be advisable for an entanglement with a legal marriage and children.

"I've only had sex with five guys."

Translation: I've had five boyfriends, who I regularly had sex with but never anal, and then were lucky to get their ****s sucked twice a month. I've also had sex once inside a bathroom stall at a club, but that doesn't count because I was drunk. I've sucked the **** of eight other guys, but that's not sex, and then there was the time I tried anal sex, but it only lasted for five seconds, and after that, I was pissed at the guy for sticking his **** in my ass, so I left immediately, so that doesn't count. I've had four guys eat me out on the first date, and I sucked them off so that I wouldn't have to have sex with them because I'm a good girl, and I don't have sex on the first date. Then there are the three guys that I had sex with on the first date, but that doesn't count, because they said that they just needed to use my bathroom and then they ended up in my vagina, but that doesn't matter, because it just happened and I never texted them again. I also had sex with two guys in high school. Still, it wasn't really sex because they didn't know what they were doing and came in under a minute, so I didn't technically lose my virginity until I had sex with my first boyfriend in college, but not before I sucked another three different ****s during orientation week. But that doesn't count because it was a crazy time in my life.
I read this and her actual body count would have been 25+. Vaginal, oral, and anal are all forms of sex.

Women have a tendency to under-report their counts. It's possible to get close to an actual number from a number if you ask enough questions and she's open enough.
 
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That woman right there is a woman that would be a good candidate for marriage and family. That's the kind of woman that a man could build a life around, like men did in the 1940s-1950s.
That's the kind of woman I am talking about, minus the 10k € you need to buy her. Subconsciously I am disturbed by white women and don't trust them to be loyal wives, despite my attraction to them is the highest. I saw the most wife-qualities from Central Asian and Latina women, Balkan women are a mix but more and more get caught up with globohomo.
 

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For a bit of perspective, from Jenna Jameson (pornstar) Wikipedia page:

So here we have a pornstar who admits to having sex with 30 guys by age 30 and yet there's this guy and others in this thread who agree with him :lol: :lol:
Yeh Jenna is lying through her teeth. Remember whatever number a chick gives you atleasy double it. You dont go from having only 30 men to fuuking on camera. The girls that are bold enough to fuyk on camera have had almost triple digit number counta. Trust me on this I have dated girls that did amatuer porn. Even those girls were not brave enough to do the big production company stuff. It takes a certain super hoe to do that.

Jenna had almost 100 dyks before she did porn I promise.
 

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That's not unheard of and that alone isn't a reason to end an interaction. It is a reason to avoid the entanglements of legal marriage and babies with her.



Women can run up a body count nearly as high as they can imagine. A lot of women age 25+ have demanding careers getting in the way of putting up new notches. As an example, female lawyers work a lot of hours. That has a tendency to vagina block themselves from getting new penis simply because they can't spend as much time going out to bars or gyms to get approached or show up at bars from swipe app arranged dates. Also, a lot of women are super entitled and super fussy about the penises they let into their bodies. It's possible that a woman has sex with 10 sex men from 2 years of swipe app use, but she had 50+ "one date, no sex, no second date interactions" and she also flaked on 200+ app conversations during that time.



That woman right there is a woman that would be a good candidate for marriage and family. That's the kind of woman that a man could build a life around, like men did in the 1940s-1950s.

I've spent my life in the United States. Post college, I have lived in 2 of the 15 biggest US metro areas. I've typically interacted with White women with bachelor's degrees or higher. Would you marry any of those women? At best, you can get a decent girlfriend from that pool but not a woman that would be advisable for an entanglement with a legal marriage and children.



I read this and her actual body count would have been 25+. Vaginal, oral, and anal are all forms of sex.

Women have a tendency to under-report their counts. It's possible to get close to an actual number from a number if you ask enough questions and she's open enough.
Bro super facts. Exactly.
 
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No I found the list in her phone and rounded up to 30, I came as close as a man can come to finding the real number. Her defence was she was young and that number could have been much higher which I don’t doubt but 30 is still 30
is this the same chick you were worked up on earlier this year?
 

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Jenna is lying through her teeth. Remember whatever number a chick gives you atleasy double it. You dont go from having only 30 men to fuuking on camera. The girls that are bold enough to fuyk on camera have had almost triple digit number counta. Trust me on this I have dated girls that did amatuer porn. Even those girls were not brave enough to do the big production company stuff. It takes a certain super hoe to do that.

Jenna had almost 100 dyks before she did porn I promise.
Jenna Jameson is a bit irrelevant. Remember that she's pushing 50 and her heyday in porn was the 2nd half of the 1990s/1st half of the 2000s. When she was big in porn, that was before all of the tube sites on the internet launched. It was possible to get free porn though before the tube sites. In my freshman year dorm (2001-02 school year), many if not most of the fellow freshman males were using Kazaa to download porn clips and porn movies for free, some with Jenna Jameson in them. I'm glad I gave up porn and fapping.

In major production company porn, there are not a lot of males. This means a female porn star won't put up a lot of notches solely from having sex with male porn stars. Women who regularly have casual sex from bars or Tinder have a decent chance of being able to exceed female notches solely from sex on camera with male porn stars. Even female porn stars put up more of their quantity of notches from off camera males, including getting directly paid for off camera sex.

I do agree that a woman likely has a significant notch count prior to doing porn. Women who regularly have casual sex from bars, strippers, and married women who are active in a swinger type lifestyle are most prone to being porn stars. Those are typically higher notch count women.
 
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That's not unheard of and that alone isn't a reason to end an interaction. It is a reason to avoid the entanglements of legal marriage and babies with her.
Agreed that's why I didn't immediately bounce, it's good for what it is right now, sex and companionship while I go about my business. Still hurts though.

is this the same chick you were worked up on earlier this year?
Yeah
 
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