steroidsrule
Don Juan
...i know you get the concept... dont take it literally...ugh... please tell me you were kidding lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is it smart to do this...if someone likes her??
- Thread starter Kerensky
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Concept understanding...Minimal, though I see the point...I'm a refuting son of a b!tch.
Concept understanding...Minimal, though I see the point...I'm a refuting son of a b!tch.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
basically... dont be easy!! be difficult... girls love a challange... most guys that approach them are easy as hell...if she doesnt know what your thinking she'll want you much more...be UNPREDICTIBLE... instead of talking to her 4th period everyday... dont talk to her that day just act like your busy... dont be mean or anything just make it look like you got something to do...and the next day... dont talk to her 4th period again...she'll think your ignoring her again but instead of doing that you talk to her 6th period... understand?
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I only have one class with her (I only go to school for one class...)
Some days...I'm up for talking to her, some days it's just whatever.
Some days...she asks what's wrong...and I hate to do it..but I have to say 'nothing' when I know damn well what the problem is.
Some days...I'm up for talking to her, some days it's just whatever.
Some days...she asks what's wrong...and I hate to do it..but I have to say 'nothing' when I know damn well what the problem is.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
no thats good! if she aks whats wrong and you say nothing but continue to act like somethings wrong she'll get curious... she give you any signs or do you not know how to detect them?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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She's not giving signs...
Occasionally..she pokes me in the back with her pencil to ask a question about a question she can't get..(i'm too smart for the class, so i'm being half used at the same time.)
She's not flirty and doesn't like to give out hugs...so I can go for a good 1 to 2 weeks without touching her.
Basically, I don't know what kind of attraction to try to pull off, because she's so uptight.
Occasionally..she pokes me in the back with her pencil to ask a question about a question she can't get..(i'm too smart for the class, so i'm being half used at the same time.)
She's not flirty and doesn't like to give out hugs...so I can go for a good 1 to 2 weeks without touching her.
Basically, I don't know what kind of attraction to try to pull off, because she's so uptight.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
you need to get some kino in there bro but you also have to take in consideration that its alittle too late for her... friends zone is a *****....its been done before but its rare... you NEED social proof in the class to make her jealous/realize your in demand... there any girls in there?
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ooh, I can be a joker at times and crack the class up. I can esp. chat it up with the hottest one in the class at times.
But I know that no matter what I pull in that class..I'm not going to stir jealously in her. As for Kino, I'm a retard when it comes to it. I can't touch without hesitation, unless I know I won't be pushed away. In this case, it's full rejection for kino. Can't play with the hair, can't touch her hands, can't get a hug out of her...
But I know that no matter what I pull in that class..I'm not going to stir jealously in her. As for Kino, I'm a retard when it comes to it. I can't touch without hesitation, unless I know I won't be pushed away. In this case, it's full rejection for kino. Can't play with the hair, can't touch her hands, can't get a hug out of her...
steroidsrule
Don Juan
pm your screenname bro ill send you some stuff quick
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done.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
ok i got the concept but uh...can you send me stuff too? lol