"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it smart to do this...if someone likes her??

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...i know you get the concept... dont take it literally...ugh... please tell me you were kidding lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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basically... dont be easy!! be difficult... girls love a challange... most guys that approach them are easy as hell...if she doesnt know what your thinking she'll want you much more...be UNPREDICTIBLE... instead of talking to her 4th period everyday... dont talk to her that day just act like your busy... dont be mean or anything just make it look like you got something to do...and the next day... dont talk to her 4th period again...she'll think your ignoring her again but instead of doing that you talk to her 6th period... understand?
 

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I only have one class with her (I only go to school for one class...)

Some days...I'm up for talking to her, some days it's just whatever.
Some days...she asks what's wrong...and I hate to do it..but I have to say 'nothing' when I know damn well what the problem is.
 

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no thats good! if she aks whats wrong and you say nothing but continue to act like somethings wrong she'll get curious... she give you any signs or do you not know how to detect them?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's not giving signs...

Occasionally..she pokes me in the back with her pencil to ask a question about a question she can't get..(i'm too smart for the class, so i'm being half used at the same time.)

She's not flirty and doesn't like to give out hugs...so I can go for a good 1 to 2 weeks without touching her.

Basically, I don't know what kind of attraction to try to pull off, because she's so uptight.
 

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you need to get some kino in there bro but you also have to take in consideration that its alittle too late for her... friends zone is a *****....its been done before but its rare... you NEED social proof in the class to make her jealous/realize your in demand... there any girls in there?
 

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ooh, I can be a joker at times and crack the class up. I can esp. chat it up with the hottest one in the class at times.

But I know that no matter what I pull in that class..I'm not going to stir jealously in her. As for Kino, I'm a retard when it comes to it. I can't touch without hesitation, unless I know I won't be pushed away. In this case, it's full rejection for kino. Can't play with the hair, can't touch her hands, can't get a hug out of her...
 

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pm your screenname bro ill send you some stuff quick
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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