"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it smart to do this...if someone likes her??

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...i know you get the concept... dont take it literally...ugh... please tell me you were kidding lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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basically... dont be easy!! be difficult... girls love a challange... most guys that approach them are easy as hell...if she doesnt know what your thinking she'll want you much more...be UNPREDICTIBLE... instead of talking to her 4th period everyday... dont talk to her that day just act like your busy... dont be mean or anything just make it look like you got something to do...and the next day... dont talk to her 4th period again...she'll think your ignoring her again but instead of doing that you talk to her 6th period... understand?
 

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I only have one class with her (I only go to school for one class...)

Some days...I'm up for talking to her, some days it's just whatever.
Some days...she asks what's wrong...and I hate to do it..but I have to say 'nothing' when I know damn well what the problem is.
 

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no thats good! if she aks whats wrong and you say nothing but continue to act like somethings wrong she'll get curious... she give you any signs or do you not know how to detect them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She's not giving signs...

Occasionally..she pokes me in the back with her pencil to ask a question about a question she can't get..(i'm too smart for the class, so i'm being half used at the same time.)

She's not flirty and doesn't like to give out hugs...so I can go for a good 1 to 2 weeks without touching her.

Basically, I don't know what kind of attraction to try to pull off, because she's so uptight.
 

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you need to get some kino in there bro but you also have to take in consideration that its alittle too late for her... friends zone is a *****....its been done before but its rare... you NEED social proof in the class to make her jealous/realize your in demand... there any girls in there?
 

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ooh, I can be a joker at times and crack the class up. I can esp. chat it up with the hottest one in the class at times.

But I know that no matter what I pull in that class..I'm not going to stir jealously in her. As for Kino, I'm a retard when it comes to it. I can't touch without hesitation, unless I know I won't be pushed away. In this case, it's full rejection for kino. Can't play with the hair, can't touch her hands, can't get a hug out of her...
 

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pm your screenname bro ill send you some stuff quick
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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