Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How so?I'm an extrovert 100%
I don't think personality means much
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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My girlfriend is the same way. Seeing her with groups of people would make you think she is very extroverted. But she can only take it in small does. Then she needs to go home and recharge. This is a common thing. I've read about it.INTJ when I tested... for years I thought I might be bi polar. Could go out... have a blast.. be “extroverted” then would feel like I had the life sucked out of me for a week or so... would need to be alone and didn’t want to socialize. My best friend is an extreme extrovert and i need very long breaks from him .. he doesn’t get it
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