Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is it safe to ejaculate outside?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can’t believe you guys are actually having this discussion. It’s actually kind of funny.

But hey no risk of having spermatozoa in your prostatic fluid if you’re a one and done chump. So rock on dewds.

Guys look at an anatomical map and trace the vas deferens - learn something today…
 

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Oh, I forgot you went to American schools.
In that case, go to the library.
You'd be amazed at the number of American women who cannot locate their urethra...or know that it's separate from their vulva...

Pro-tip: if you know female anatomy, it puts you ahead of 99.9% of other men...
 

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You'd be amazed at the number of American women who cannot locate their urethra...or know that it's separate from their vulva...

Pro-tip: if you know female anatomy, it puts you ahead of 99.9% of other men...
Agree. None of my guy or female friends know this stuff. They don’t know how a woman’s cycle works either. One is a mom of two who thinks she’s more fertile during her period. These are all mature adults.
 

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Two things to keep in mind:

1. The chances of a woman getting pregnant from pre-*** are pretty low...even if you're having sex with a woman who is in her biological prime. Not zero percent, but pretty low.

2. Older women have a hard enough time getting pregnant from good old fashioned full-blast ejaculation (let alone pre-cvm). Women in their 30's have to try for months (sometimes years) to get pregnant.

Now combine those two low probability events, and your odds of getting a 30+ year old chick pregnant this way are pretty negligible. Having said that, there are other, more important reasons to wear rubber.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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your odds of getting a 30+ year old chick pregnant
I have spent the past 10 years ejaculating inside women typically age 30+ while wearing a condom. Most were using some birth control but some weren't using any birth control. None of them got pregnant.
 

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I have spent the past 10 years ejaculating inside women typically age 30+ while wearing a condom. Most were using some birth control but some weren't using any birth control. None of them got pregnant.
Why would they get pregnant if you are wearing a condom??
 

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Why would they get pregnant if you are wearing a condom??
Condoms can fail. It's very good to use a 2nd contraceptive method alongside condoms but usually ok using condoms alone.

In the last 10 years, I have had 3 things going for me in terms of pregnancy prevention.

1. I use condoms
2. Most women were using birth control
3. Most women I've had sex with were 30+ with reduced fertility
 

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Condoms can fail. It's very good to use a 2nd contraceptive method alongside condoms but usually ok using condoms alone.

In the last 10 years, I have had 3 things going for me in terms of pregnancy prevention.

1. I use condoms
2. Most women were using birth control
3. Most women I've had sex with were 30+ with reduced fertility
As long as you use condoms that fit you properly (and she's not completely dry), the odds of breakage are extremely low.
 
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