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Is it safe to ejaculate outside?

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I have always had sex by ejaculating outside. I never used condoms with my partners. That's because the girls I've been with have always used the rhythm method and I haven't had to worry about it. However, I was talking to a doctor and he told me that there is a lot of risk of pregnancy even if I come outside. I have always been pretty confident in my method until this doctor scared me.

I would like to know if ejaculating outside is safe, if you have pregnant any girl using this method. Or if this doctor is too exaggerated.

I would really like to read your opinions and recommendations, my friends.
 

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However, I was talking to a doctor and he told me that there is a lot of risk of pregnancy even if I come outside.
Doctors are risk-averse pvssies. They won't give people the reality: risk of pregnancy is completely overblown.There is always a "risk" in the sense that nothing is foolproof. Even wearing a condom and nutting inside a girl who's on BC isn't foolproof. But, the odds of getting a girl pregnant by cumming on her body is low. And if you ovulation track on top of it...forget about it.

I raw dogged a girl for months on no BC and she never got preggo just because we ovulation tracked. It's not rocket science...women are literally incapable of getting pregnant except during ovulation and up to 48 hrs before it.
 

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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Doctors are risk-averse pvssies. They won't give people the reality: risk of pregnancy is completely overblown.There is always a "risk" in the sense that nothing is foolproof. Even wearing a condom and nutting inside a girl who's on BC isn't foolproof. But, the odds of getting a girl pregnant by cumming on her body is low. And if you ovulation track on top of it...forget about it.

I raw dogged a girl for months on no BC and she never got preggo just because we ovulation tracked. It's not rocket science...women are literally incapable of getting pregnant except during ovulation and up to 48 hrs before it.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. You did track ovulation. But you penetrated her and then came outside in her body?
 

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Keep playing stupid games and you'll see what you'll win.

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. You did track ovulation. But you penetrated her and then came outside in her body?
Inside
 

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I have always had sex by ejaculating outside. I never used condoms with my partners. That's because the girls I've been with have always used the rhythm method and I haven't had to worry about it. However, I was talking to a doctor and he told me that there is a lot of risk of pregnancy even if I come outside. I have always been pretty confident in my method until this doctor scared me.

I would like to know if ejaculating outside is safe, if you have pregnant any girl using this method. Or if this doctor is too exaggerated.

I would really like to read your opinions and recommendations, my friends.
That is how I had sex with my ex wife, 100% if the time as I too was worried about getting her pregnant as I had no assets and was in a deep hole financially. She never got pregnant. Some part of me wish she did so I would not be so sour and have something to show for all that rather than feeling back to incel square one. I actually may never have a kid now. Oh well.
 

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The doctor is right, the rhythm method is not safe. There's often semen in pre-***, so even if you don't ejaculate inside her, you can still impregnate her. This is basic biology as taught in most primary schools here.

If you don't want to impregnate a woman, don't have intercourse without a condom. Even if she swears she's on the pill.

On the upside, you can use her other holes without a risk. I don't think she can keep the semen in her mouth and put them in her vagina and impregnate herself, but if you want to minimise that risk, make sure she swallows by giving her a drink afterward.
Sperm is only in precum if you've had a recent ejaculation.
 

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I have always had sex by ejaculating outside. I never used condoms with my partners. That's because the girls I've been with have always used the rhythm method and I haven't had to worry about it. However, I was talking to a doctor and he told me that there is a lot of risk of pregnancy even if I come outside. I have always been pretty confident in my method until this doctor scared me.

I would like to know if ejaculating outside is safe, if you have pregnant any girl using this method. Or if this doctor is too exaggerated.

I would really like to read your opinions and recommendations, my friends.
The answer to all your prayers!

Kiddo screams in Danish btw. "I want candy".
This is your coming future tho if you do not put a hat on your best little buddy.
 

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Back to school.
The schools are wrong. Are you really claiming they are the authority? They also that told us that if you that if you smoke weed once you're going to become homeless and/or a terrorist. They failed us badly; most men (and even some women) still think that women can get pregnant on their period or don't even know what ovulation is.

I actually tried to find a study and apparently there is no conclusive evidence for either side.

 
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Yes, if you can be absolutely sure there's no precvm and that there's no viable sperm in it. You can't be sure of that so you're not completely safe doing that.

It's of course less risk than cvmming inside her every time, but you're definitely gambling here.
 

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Doctors are risk-averse pvssies. They won't give people the reality: risk of pregnancy is completely overblown.There is always a "risk" in the sense that nothing is foolproof. Even wearing a condom and nutting inside a girl who's on BC isn't foolproof. But, the odds of getting a girl pregnant by cumming on her body is low. And if you ovulation track on top of it...forget about it.

I raw dogged a girl for months on no BC and she never got preggo just because we ovulation tracked. It's not rocket science...women are literally incapable of getting pregnant except during ovulation and up to 48 hrs before it.
Truth. Altho I don't keep track of their ovulations tbh

I actually tried to find a study and apparently there is no conclusive evidence for either side.
Don't need one. Just what your experience tells you.
 

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Truth. Altho I don't keep track of their ovulations tbh



Don't need one. Just what your experience tells you.
People have been telling me I'm an idiot for 10 years and nothing has happened yet! Are they still going to say this when I'm in my 40s?

The thing is, I actually researched this to hell and back ages ago, and I am unable to find the source where I heard this. But, i'm not even able to find any studies proving that sperm is in precum either.
 

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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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