Is it really this easy for Chads in NYC using Tinder?

[mrgoodstuff]

I have difficulty understanding your situation, guys from all over the world are trying to flock to Scandinavia to get with beautiful women but you're trying to leave....????.....

Haven't you seen the movie Midsommar? Women in that movie were gorgeous. If Swedish women look like that why would any man want to leave....???.....

If they look like that and hating their own men. That's why.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I do feel blessed to live 10 minutes from the Atlantic Ocean and 1 hour from NYC. Yes, metro NYC is bougie but the dating opportunities are endless

 

[Murk]

agreed, there is nothing as good as the Greek islands ime. I like Vegas though, it is the closest comparable I can think of to the party islands where women are still looking to hook up and not glued to their OLD profile and 5 boyfriends waiting at home. Brazil possibly next year.

I find vegas SUPER expensive, like 3-4k expensive

It's a weird place where everything is geared towards taking money from your pockets

 

[Murk]

It depends on if you need to be at all the best clubs/restaurants/hotels or not. I do tend to throw money around but IMO just skimp on the hotel and go to one of the great no-cover clubs and spend money on drinks, gambling, and food. Unfortunately one of my crews is very snobby and will run up the bill.

Vegas is a luxury for Europeans it's a 14 hour flight for me, we not going there to **** spiders (aussie saying) - we go to do all the best things, gamble, pool party, its the full experience. Likewise, if you come to London you would think it's expensive but I could show you a great night on £100.

Everyone I know that goes to vegas spends north of 2.5k all in

 

[Murk]

Right, I know. It's probably not worth the flight more than once.

I don't know why you guys don't hit up brazil, argentia, colombia, chile etc - **** mexico don't you see enough of them? So much culture in SA that Americans don't tap into. The americas are an isolated continent, so vast, so much outside of A, B and C.

Similarly, Australian are a stones throw away from Bali, Vietnam, Philippines. Take advantage of your locations.

 

[Murk]

People on the West coast go there often. East coast is more Europe and the Caribbean.

The Caribbean is great, but I'm half Jamaican and spend a lot of time in Miami and Jamaica. If you're a white guy looking for girls, Caribbean is only for the most swaggy (don't see Chaddy), it's a confidence thing. In fact, there is a subset of male under Chad, a cool half good looking guy with confidence. This never gets address, brb making thread.

 

[metalwater]

This.
As they say with great power comes great responsibility. It's up to you how you want to use or abuse that power. One of the reasons why we're at where we're at today with the police for example.

I call it the dark side. There is a set of behaviors that are in sync with the dark side, what she describes is one of them. It is a slippery slope; when accepting some of them the others fallow easily.

 

[metalwater]

It’s a trade off in a way. The abundance being so easy means as a lover some guys are mediocre because they are lazy and focus on their own sexual gratification at the expense of their partner.

That’s why a man like you can come along and teach women things in bed. Because her prior lovers didn’t know or didn’t care enough to engage her fully.

When I hear men go on about how empty and meaningless sex becomes I cannot help but wonder how selfish in bed they are; or how tuned out (tuned in only to their satisfaction). Some men want to think they are getting a woman off and all...but there’s a reason so many women fake orgasms. It strokes the man’s ego and its easier than telling a guy he’s not getting her where she needs to go.

isn't it hard to fake, for a guy that knows what it is? I don't mean the screaming and wiggling, I mean the physical response inside.

 

[BeExcellent]

isn't it hard to fake, for a guy that knows what it is? I don't mean the screaming and wiggling, I mean the physical response inside.

I don’t know because I have never understood why a woman would fake...and I personally don’t and won’t...but I’m not an ONS kind of gal either. But I know some women who fake or have done at times because the man is so fixated on having that feedback...

I always wondered that too...wouldn’t a man notice if there isn’t the physiological response? But often people are drunk or otherwise not sober...

So I don’t know. But for a man I’d encourage a guy to become a good lover...and that means much more than the physical act of sex.

 

[Visionist]

Many women are laughably poor actresses when it comes to faking it. Source: more than half of the hookers I've banged in the past two years.

Then there's a small handful who are so good they should be in porn at the very least. For me there's no difference between them and a civvie in their performance.

In between there are those who simply don't give a fûck.

 

[Wild Wild Wild Thoughts]

I live in NYC and plan on sticking around but the truth is, the city went downhill year after year starting in 2015. As soon as you had tech companies like Google and Facebook announcing that they want to open up offices here, the ratios were no longer decent. It is not like you had more competition per se because tech guys are weird and socially awkward but the problem is that they had money and they were there. Bars and nightclubs in places such as Murray Hill, Upper East Side, Lower East Side, East Village, and the infamous Meatpacking District started flooding up with dorky losers from San Fran instead of beautiful women from all over the world.

Your typical beauty who would usually be all alone now got annoyed by awkward losers making approaches on her. Even though getting laid was possible and you were a breath of fresh air compared to these dorks, the vibe was dead. You ran into more overweight feminist harpies since the Bay Area and Toronto also sent their worst.

Then you'd go to places like Mr. Purple, Le Bain, PhD, and Brass Monkey to find Pickup Artists spam approaching girls who found them comedic. You ran into awkward dudes after awkward dudes who killed the vibe, they were usually from Toronto or California, in other words ****ty places where the women suck.

The reality is that these dudes heard NYC was the mecca for getting laid and they flooded in, which ruined the ratios and eventually the nightlife. Even though their game sucked, their sh1tty vibe ruined the whole nightlife scene because quite frankly the Bay Area sucks.

Even the female population started to suck, less European women and more women from sh1thole cities like Toronto and all of California ruining the vibe of the bar and being their typical high school popularity contest self.

NYC's golden years are far far behind it.

I think by 2022, it is going to be a horrible city for men.