"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is it posssible to stay happy the whole day?

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avrilishot

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well is it? the thing is Im pretty sure most girls get turned off

when they see me because I look mad or pissed off. And the

thing is im not. But everyday I struggle to stay happy and its just

not working. The thing is also is im busy doing house work and

crap so sometimes its hard for me to smile. so if you have some

advise please help me out. thanks alot.


avrilishot:)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sing stupid songs in your head when you start to get irriatated.
 
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Must think happy thoughts....

Must think happy thoughts....

Must think happy thoughts....

Holy...even after 3 times I feel like snapping...I suck at this whole 'bottling up emotions' thing...

You didnt mention why you are angry or depressed, if you know and simply didnt want to post'em(understandable) try to work on those before you worry about women. If you dont know....well if your a teenager then trust me, everyone is angry and depressed...some just hide it better than others..

if your with me in the mid-20's....well there's always therapy and drugs but I do believe these are really a way of finding the causes.

Women are not a means to the end of making yourself a happy well adjusted individual...they come once you are a happy well adjusted individual

Hamno
 
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Women are not a means to the end of making yourself a happy well adjusted individual...they come once you are a happy well adjusted individual
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Good point here.
 
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Put all your priorities into one of the three categories,

1. Things I have to do - Reward your self with #2

2. Things I want to do - Happy !!

3. I Don't give a fck - then go back to #2
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Try and find enjoyment in all aspects of your life. Your work, your crap, all of it. If you're happy with your life, then others will be happy with you. (i.e. more friends and more women.)

But when you're pissed be pissed.
 
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Originally posted by Hamno
Women are not a means to the end of making yourself a happy well adjusted individual...they come once you are a happy well adjusted individual
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Well put...

Oh what a power women have when they can dictate wheter or not a guy can be happy or not...
 
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