"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is it posssible to stay happy the whole day?

avrilishot

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well is it? the thing is Im pretty sure most girls get turned off

when they see me because I look mad or pissed off. And the

thing is im not. But everyday I struggle to stay happy and its just

not working. The thing is also is im busy doing house work and

crap so sometimes its hard for me to smile. so if you have some

advise please help me out. thanks alot.


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten

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sing stupid songs in your head when you start to get irriatated.
 

Hamno

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Must think happy thoughts....

Must think happy thoughts....

Must think happy thoughts....

Holy...even after 3 times I feel like snapping...I suck at this whole 'bottling up emotions' thing...

You didnt mention why you are angry or depressed, if you know and simply didnt want to post'em(understandable) try to work on those before you worry about women. If you dont know....well if your a teenager then trust me, everyone is angry and depressed...some just hide it better than others..

if your with me in the mid-20's....well there's always therapy and drugs but I do believe these are really a way of finding the causes.

Women are not a means to the end of making yourself a happy well adjusted individual...they come once you are a happy well adjusted individual

Hamno
 

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Women are not a means to the end of making yourself a happy well adjusted individual...they come once you are a happy well adjusted individual
Good point here.
 

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Put all your priorities into one of the three categories,

1. Things I have to do - Reward your self with #2

2. Things I want to do - Happy !!

3. I Don't give a fck - then go back to #2
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Q-Pid

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Try and find enjoyment in all aspects of your life. Your work, your crap, all of it. If you're happy with your life, then others will be happy with you. (i.e. more friends and more women.)

But when you're pissed be pissed.
 

DjDreamer

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Originally posted by Hamno
Women are not a means to the end of making yourself a happy well adjusted individual...they come once you are a happy well adjusted individual
Well put...

Oh what a power women have when they can dictate wheter or not a guy can be happy or not...
 
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