"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it Possible...

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quiksilver

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Of course it's POSSIBLE, but you haven't given us enough detail to tell you whether you have enough of a chance worthy of putting some effort in.

I got with my Ex's first cousin ;)
 

PimpOfTheSouth

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Well there really isnt to much details shes only like 16 right now, im just talking about the future say when she is like 18. I just wanted to know if it was possible.
 

Cinamon

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That is so wrong, from a womans perspective. A lot of exs would have serious issues with that, so if you are thinking anything serious and long term, probably not... a bit of fun, you may have a chance.

My casual sex buddy set me up on a date with a friend of his, and when his friend and i started dating dating it really made life difficult. If i coudl go back I wouldnt have done it, ended up losing two good blokes for nothing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KSUgamer

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Its hard man, I've tried. Almost came up successful, I wasn't that great with girls back then though. The less close the sisters are to one another the better, of course never bring up the ex when around her. Act like you and the ex never happened and treat her like any other girl.
 

PimpOfTheSouth

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I mean this wouldnt take place for another 3 years anyway. Im talking to other girls right now, but shes a good friend of my younger cousins and she actually came over to my house to shoot some hoops with me. It was just a random thought that popped into my head because shes very attractive.
 

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I am going to try to hook up with this girl i hooked up with's sister in the next year or two when the opportunity comes. She's hot herself, but really i just want to do it because it would be awesome to have hooked up with two sisters.
 

War Against Betaism

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Entirely possible, you just have to play your cards really well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Someone posted a youtube link on here where in a show, I guy tells his ex that he will fvck her mother... and does. Worth the watch. I would absolutely love to get with a couple younger sisters - it's a win/win, but hasn't happened yet.
 

Scars

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^ Haha, I know exactly what you're talking about. I think it's on ebaums world or something. Hilarious.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PimpOfTheSouth

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So basically if your close enough to a younger girl, can you basically recruit? Kind of like when a top college goes after a young prospect trying to peak interest. I know it sounds a little funny, but it seems like it could work.
 

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Definitely possible. My friend went out with this one girl. They "fell in love," and he fvcked her, and it was his first time. They had this whole history and he ended up fvcking her older sister after. Both incredibly hot. He's my hero.
 

slickaz

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ive done one of my ex's sister's...when she was in the same house at the time..

they had had an argument and the sister walked into a room and locked the door.
i knocked and went in, and she locked the door again so my ex(girl at the time) could not get in. since they were arguing.

i went in.did stuff..and she came out smiling.

at the time everyone,her parents etc, thought i was a magician to have an arguing yelling mad woman to come out smiling..but 3 months later when the truth came out, i got into some seriou drama. :)

oh, ive had my car windows smashed in, tyres cut etc by the older sister i was dating, because the younger sister told her that she f'd me to get back at her and so she can never win any argument.
**ssiiiigghh** women!!
 

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it's more than possible.

just hang around her, make her want you.

in two years - reap the rewards
 

PimpOfTheSouth

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So than heres the Million Dollar question, How can I hang around her and not get thrown into the friends category in two years?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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