"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it Possible...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quiksilver

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Of course it's POSSIBLE, but you haven't given us enough detail to tell you whether you have enough of a chance worthy of putting some effort in.

I got with my Ex's first cousin ;)
 

PimpOfTheSouth

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Well there really isnt to much details shes only like 16 right now, im just talking about the future say when she is like 18. I just wanted to know if it was possible.
 

Cinamon

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That is so wrong, from a womans perspective. A lot of exs would have serious issues with that, so if you are thinking anything serious and long term, probably not... a bit of fun, you may have a chance.

My casual sex buddy set me up on a date with a friend of his, and when his friend and i started dating dating it really made life difficult. If i coudl go back I wouldnt have done it, ended up losing two good blokes for nothing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KSUgamer

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Its hard man, I've tried. Almost came up successful, I wasn't that great with girls back then though. The less close the sisters are to one another the better, of course never bring up the ex when around her. Act like you and the ex never happened and treat her like any other girl.
 

PimpOfTheSouth

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I mean this wouldnt take place for another 3 years anyway. Im talking to other girls right now, but shes a good friend of my younger cousins and she actually came over to my house to shoot some hoops with me. It was just a random thought that popped into my head because shes very attractive.
 

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I am going to try to hook up with this girl i hooked up with's sister in the next year or two when the opportunity comes. She's hot herself, but really i just want to do it because it would be awesome to have hooked up with two sisters.
 

War Against Betaism

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Entirely possible, you just have to play your cards really well.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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R19

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Someone posted a youtube link on here where in a show, I guy tells his ex that he will fvck her mother... and does. Worth the watch. I would absolutely love to get with a couple younger sisters - it's a win/win, but hasn't happened yet.
 

Scars

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^ Haha, I know exactly what you're talking about. I think it's on ebaums world or something. Hilarious.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PimpOfTheSouth

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So basically if your close enough to a younger girl, can you basically recruit? Kind of like when a top college goes after a young prospect trying to peak interest. I know it sounds a little funny, but it seems like it could work.
 

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Definitely possible. My friend went out with this one girl. They "fell in love," and he fvcked her, and it was his first time. They had this whole history and he ended up fvcking her older sister after. Both incredibly hot. He's my hero.
 

slickaz

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ive done one of my ex's sister's...when she was in the same house at the time..

they had had an argument and the sister walked into a room and locked the door.
i knocked and went in, and she locked the door again so my ex(girl at the time) could not get in. since they were arguing.

i went in.did stuff..and she came out smiling.

at the time everyone,her parents etc, thought i was a magician to have an arguing yelling mad woman to come out smiling..but 3 months later when the truth came out, i got into some seriou drama. :)

oh, ive had my car windows smashed in, tyres cut etc by the older sister i was dating, because the younger sister told her that she f'd me to get back at her and so she can never win any argument.
**ssiiiigghh** women!!
 

Georgiy

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it's more than possible.

just hang around her, make her want you.

in two years - reap the rewards
 

PimpOfTheSouth

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So than heres the Million Dollar question, How can I hang around her and not get thrown into the friends category in two years?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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