PimpOfTheSouth
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To get with an exs younger sister???
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is it Possible...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PimpOfTheSouth
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Of course it's POSSIBLE, but you haven't given us enough detail to tell you whether you have enough of a chance worthy of putting some effort in.
I got with my Ex's first cousin
I got with my Ex's first cousin
PimpOfTheSouth
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Well there really isnt to much details shes only like 16 right now, im just talking about the future say when she is like 18. I just wanted to know if it was possible.
That is so wrong, from a womans perspective. A lot of exs would have serious issues with that, so if you are thinking anything serious and long term, probably not... a bit of fun, you may have a chance.
My casual sex buddy set me up on a date with a friend of his, and when his friend and i started dating dating it really made life difficult. If i coudl go back I wouldnt have done it, ended up losing two good blokes for nothing.
My casual sex buddy set me up on a date with a friend of his, and when his friend and i started dating dating it really made life difficult. If i coudl go back I wouldnt have done it, ended up losing two good blokes for nothing.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Its hard man, I've tried. Almost came up successful, I wasn't that great with girls back then though. The less close the sisters are to one another the better, of course never bring up the ex when around her. Act like you and the ex never happened and treat her like any other girl.
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I mean this wouldnt take place for another 3 years anyway. Im talking to other girls right now, but shes a good friend of my younger cousins and she actually came over to my house to shoot some hoops with me. It was just a random thought that popped into my head because shes very attractive.
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I am going to try to hook up with this girl i hooked up with's sister in the next year or two when the opportunity comes. She's hot herself, but really i just want to do it because it would be awesome to have hooked up with two sisters.
War Against Betaism
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Entirely possible, you just have to play your cards really well.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PimpOfTheSouth
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Shes Only Sixteen right now, But im sure we will have more encounters in the future.
Someone posted a youtube link on here where in a show, I guy tells his ex that he will fvck her mother... and does. Worth the watch. I would absolutely love to get with a couple younger sisters - it's a win/win, but hasn't happened yet.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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So basically if your close enough to a younger girl, can you basically recruit? Kind of like when a top college goes after a young prospect trying to peak interest. I know it sounds a little funny, but it seems like it could work.
Definitely possible. My friend went out with this one girl. They "fell in love," and he fvcked her, and it was his first time. They had this whole history and he ended up fvcking her older sister after. Both incredibly hot. He's my hero.
ive done one of my ex's sister's...when she was in the same house at the time..
they had had an argument and the sister walked into a room and locked the door.
i knocked and went in, and she locked the door again so my ex(girl at the time) could not get in. since they were arguing.
i went in.did stuff..and she came out smiling.
at the time everyone,her parents etc, thought i was a magician to have an arguing yelling mad woman to come out smiling..but 3 months later when the truth came out, i got into some seriou drama.
oh, ive had my car windows smashed in, tyres cut etc by the older sister i was dating, because the younger sister told her that she f'd me to get back at her and so she can never win any argument.
**ssiiiigghh** women!!
they had had an argument and the sister walked into a room and locked the door.
i knocked and went in, and she locked the door again so my ex(girl at the time) could not get in. since they were arguing.
i went in.did stuff..and she came out smiling.
at the time everyone,her parents etc, thought i was a magician to have an arguing yelling mad woman to come out smiling..but 3 months later when the truth came out, i got into some seriou drama.
oh, ive had my car windows smashed in, tyres cut etc by the older sister i was dating, because the younger sister told her that she f'd me to get back at her and so she can never win any argument.
**ssiiiigghh** women!!
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So than heres the Million Dollar question, How can I hang around her and not get thrown into the friends category in two years?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.