"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it possible to make a girl that once liked you like you again?

iCatch

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how? i wasn't friend zoned. she used to like me, but i was too scared to make a move. now we barely talk to each other. what should i do? i see her everyday in the hallway
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anything is possible. Just make your move and learn from it. Or you'll regret it if you don't.
 

Badmannaz

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lol i love this one!!! im kinda in this situation but with some further knowledge i was able to start to fix it....lol

1.make a move...your unnatractive to any female when u dont make a move (period)

2.gauge her interest in you...if its low...approach her with humor....try to make her laugh...and you will get instant points...

Basically if you WANT her you have to do everything backwards SERIOUSLY

so if your scared to approach = approach her
you plan on being nice = don't be nice...tease her
your not making any moves = make a move

women find confidence extremely attractive...when your not confident....your unnatractive....period..
 

Badmannaz

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it's easier when you feel and look better....i notice when i Lift weights before approaching it does wonders for my confidence because i have a boost in testosterone.. try lifting a lttle and then approaching a girl it'll do wonders for you ;-)
 

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iCatch said:
how? i wasn't friend zoned. she used to like me, but i was too scared to make a move. now we barely talk to each other. what should i do? i see her everyday in the hallway
I'm sorry, but your fvcking done. You care entirely too much to game this chick properly. That being said, chat her up the NEXT time you see her and try to set something up. Fail or succeed, it will be done and taking up less space and that noggin yours. Space that could be used for others things (more chicks?).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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