"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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iCatch

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how? i wasn't friend zoned. she used to like me, but i was too scared to make a move. now we barely talk to each other. what should i do? i see her everyday in the hallway
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anything is possible. Just make your move and learn from it. Or you'll regret it if you don't.
 

Badmannaz

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lol i love this one!!! im kinda in this situation but with some further knowledge i was able to start to fix it....lol

1.make a move...your unnatractive to any female when u dont make a move (period)

2.gauge her interest in you...if its low...approach her with humor....try to make her laugh...and you will get instant points...

Basically if you WANT her you have to do everything backwards SERIOUSLY

so if your scared to approach = approach her
you plan on being nice = don't be nice...tease her
your not making any moves = make a move

women find confidence extremely attractive...when your not confident....your unnatractive....period..
 

Badmannaz

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it's easier when you feel and look better....i notice when i Lift weights before approaching it does wonders for my confidence because i have a boost in testosterone.. try lifting a lttle and then approaching a girl it'll do wonders for you ;-)
 

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iCatch said:
how? i wasn't friend zoned. she used to like me, but i was too scared to make a move. now we barely talk to each other. what should i do? i see her everyday in the hallway
I'm sorry, but your fvcking done. You care entirely too much to game this chick properly. That being said, chat her up the NEXT time you see her and try to set something up. Fail or succeed, it will be done and taking up less space and that noggin yours. Space that could be used for others things (more chicks?).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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