"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it possible to be TOO successful?

cactus3178

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Let me elaborate,

Some of you may remember my fiasco with my ex gf, and how I was without a doubt one of the biggest p*ssy-whipped-nice-guys ever. Long story short, times have changed, along with my outlook on life in general and my success with women has been nothing short of phenominal.

#1:

The first girl I hooked up with after my ex gf was, in my book, a real keeper. F*cked up sense of humor just like mine, hell of a body, very pretty girl. Super cool, a real go getter, and we had so damn much fun together.

But I cut her loose. Why? Because I'm not ready to get into a LTR. She called me last night after a solid month of no contact crying and telling me how much she loves me and how she wants us to be together. A male friend of hers told me (bite your lip PRL) how totally sprung this girl was (is) last night when I bumped into him at the bar.

I told her in the nicest way I could muster that I like her, but cannot be tied down right now. I feel bad.

#2:

I now have a stalker. Yay. This girl at my ex's work (yeah, I'm still f*cking my ex. I know it's against DJ advice, but damn I love those titties) has a level of interest so high that I'm literally starting to think she's a psychopath. This girl snaps pictures of me when I'm not looking, tells my ex's friend at work how she wants to marry me and have my kids!! Every time I turn around, she's right next to me!

:eek:

Everywhere we go, she always mysteriously 'bumps into' us. She straight up told my ex to her face that she wants to f*ck me. That's pretty ballsy for a girl.


Anyway, the point is that in two cases, these girls have gotten more involved than I wanted them to. I'm not trying to brag, boast, whatever. I'm just saying, this DJ sh*t is a double edged sword. It's so much more powerful than I imagined.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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white_hype

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uh getting a few girls to really like you is not being TOO successful dude..
 

cactus3178

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Yeah. That's not what I meant.

I'm just saying that it's not normal for a girl to fall in love after a month.
 

englishman

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But if your still fVc*ing your ex and she on the phone crying cause you wont be with her then your messin with her head and contributing to the situation..I used to do s**t like that, I think it was ego at the end of the day..
 

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Yer reading it incorrectly if you think he's messing with his ex that way.

Anyway you treated girl #1 properly -- if she can't get over you it's her issue. The other two girls (ex and other girl)...that's up to you :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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englishman

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sorry mate, I see i read it wrong.......
 

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Confess your undying devotion to these girls. Act like a needy wuss around them. They will run away screaming.
 
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