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is it possible for girls to be nervous without the usual signs that one is nervous?

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Like without fidgety behavior or stuttering?
 

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I'd assume yes but that it's usually not the case. But possibly.

Anyway, what are some of the usual signs?
 

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fidgeting
stuttering
facial tick
very quiet or starts giggling
staring at the ground
all nervous signs
 

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nando said:
Like without fidgety behavior or stuttering?
No its not because they have all the power. Girls never get nervous unless they are older and become desparate.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
No its not because they have all the power. Girls never get nervous unless they are older and become desparate.
nah bro, i know a lot of girls who get nervous when they talk to me and it is very obvious, they fidget and stutter, and move around. But when I was out of shape i never got that reaction from chicks.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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nando said:
nah bro, i know a lot of girls who get nervous when they talk to me and it is very obvious, they fidget and stutter, and move around. But when I was out of shape i never got that reaction from chicks.

OUT OF SHAPE = HARMLESS
 

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out of shape means harmless? not necessarily lol
 

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nando said:
nah bro, i know a lot of girls who get nervous when they talk to me and it is very obvious, they fidget and stutter, and move around. But when I was out of shape i never got that reaction from chicks.
Being in great shape=more physical attraction=more value. People are more prone to be nervous when they feel they could lose something of value. It's much easier for a girl to imagine you as an amazing guy when you're in great shape.

Chicks get nervous in a very different way than guys do around girls. I'd describe it more as excitement than a feeling of fear that seems to accompany guys when they're around a girl they're attracted to. (I'm a guy btw.)
 

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Chicks get nervous in a very different way than guys do around girls. I'd describe it more as excitement than a feeling of fear that seems to accompany guys when they're around a girl they're attracted to.
EXACTLY. They have something we want. If they don't get it from us, they can just do down the street and get it from the next guy. They have absolutely no reason to be nervous under any circumstances.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dam this one babe did all of these when I am around her in that order too does this mean I am hot? Wink

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penkitten said:
fidgeting
stuttering
facial tick
very quiet or starts giggling
staring at the ground
all nervous signs
 

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LoneSilver said:
Dam this one babe did all of these when I am around her in that order too does this mean I am hot? Wink

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she probably thinks so :)
 

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girls get nervous but its a lot harder to tell. Its more like lots of smiling and laughing than stuttering or fidgetting.
 
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