"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

is it possible for girls to be nervous without the usual signs that one is nervous?

nando

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2007
Messages
213
Reaction score
1
Like without fidgety behavior or stuttering?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

tsmith2334

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
761
Reaction score
16
Location
NC
I'd assume yes but that it's usually not the case. But possibly.

Anyway, what are some of the usual signs?
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,255
Reaction score
235
Age
49
Location
at our house
fidgeting
stuttering
facial tick
very quiet or starts giggling
staring at the ground
all nervous signs
 

DonJuan11

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2007
Messages
1,667
Reaction score
35
nando said:
Like without fidgety behavior or stuttering?
No its not because they have all the power. Girls never get nervous unless they are older and become desparate.
 

nando

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2007
Messages
213
Reaction score
1
DonJuan11 said:
No its not because they have all the power. Girls never get nervous unless they are older and become desparate.
nah bro, i know a lot of girls who get nervous when they talk to me and it is very obvious, they fidget and stutter, and move around. But when I was out of shape i never got that reaction from chicks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Nikos75

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2007
Messages
28
Reaction score
0
Age
51
Location
Athens, Greece
nando said:
nah bro, i know a lot of girls who get nervous when they talk to me and it is very obvious, they fidget and stutter, and move around. But when I was out of shape i never got that reaction from chicks.

OUT OF SHAPE = HARMLESS
 

DJVladdy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
1,037
Reaction score
17
out of shape means harmless? not necessarily lol
 

Stacked

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 19, 2007
Messages
19
Reaction score
2
nando said:
nah bro, i know a lot of girls who get nervous when they talk to me and it is very obvious, they fidget and stutter, and move around. But when I was out of shape i never got that reaction from chicks.
Being in great shape=more physical attraction=more value. People are more prone to be nervous when they feel they could lose something of value. It's much easier for a girl to imagine you as an amazing guy when you're in great shape.

Chicks get nervous in a very different way than guys do around girls. I'd describe it more as excitement than a feeling of fear that seems to accompany guys when they're around a girl they're attracted to. (I'm a guy btw.)
 

DonJuan11

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2007
Messages
1,667
Reaction score
35
Stacked said:
Chicks get nervous in a very different way than guys do around girls. I'd describe it more as excitement than a feeling of fear that seems to accompany guys when they're around a girl they're attracted to.
EXACTLY. They have something we want. If they don't get it from us, they can just do down the street and get it from the next guy. They have absolutely no reason to be nervous under any circumstances.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

LoneSilver

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 27, 2005
Messages
880
Reaction score
7
Location
In The South
Dam this one babe did all of these when I am around her in that order too does this mean I am hot? Wink

LoneSilver


penkitten said:
fidgeting
stuttering
facial tick
very quiet or starts giggling
staring at the ground
all nervous signs
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,255
Reaction score
235
Age
49
Location
at our house
LoneSilver said:
Dam this one babe did all of these when I am around her in that order too does this mean I am hot? Wink

LoneSilver
she probably thinks so :)
 

Sandow

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2007
Messages
930
Reaction score
40
Location
CA
girls get nervous but its a lot harder to tell. Its more like lots of smiling and laughing than stuttering or fidgetting.
 
Top