"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it possible for a coed that looks like this to be "lonely"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

http://www.miamiherald.com/news/local/community/miami-dade/article198971069.html
A Miami Beach High grad, Aldecosea played volleyball at Barry University before transferring to Wilson College in Chambersburg, Penn., last year. It was during her first lonely semester there ...
I can't fathom a coed, at the peak of Sexual Market Value - and especially looking like this - being "lonely", except if the idea of her being "not lonely" means having Superman as a boyfriend. It seems that it is the easiest thing in a world for a young woman to meet men; it is the men who are experiencing forced loneliness.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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women have different and much higher standards than men do


I get very frustrated with dating because I can't meet a cute, quality, professional, fit but curvy, super nice woman a few years younger than me. I can easily get a fat girl or a cute 36 year old but it means nothing to me. It's not what I want

Women get very frustrated with dating because they can't meet a cute, quality, professional, very successful, super fit, super charismatic man who is also *insert another 500 traits here*.... She might easily be able to get a man who is a great catch in every way but if he is not exactly what she wants in all 800,000 of her requirements, it means nothing.
 
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women have different and much higher standards than men do
thats because a 10 male will lower himself to a 4 woman just for sex

the woman never forgets being sexed by a 10 and sets it as a marker, even though the 10 never intended to have a relationship with her and she should know this, it means nothing to her then she writes all that " I KNOW WHAT IM LOOKING FOR" "DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF......."

notice how these women are still scouring sites 4 years later
 

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She might easily be able to get a man who is a great catch in every way but if he is not exactly what she wants in all 800,000 of her requirements, it means nothing.
I hooked up with a sexual starved girl (I wanted), this was her problem and ultimately she Nexted me like every other dude she told me about.
 

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Meeting people and connecting with people are two very different things. Connecting with people under 30 or so isn't easy to do and not just because of the age difference and not just people under 30. Everyone is superficial and plugged in these days, glued to their phones and notifications. Allot of people don't even let their guard down and feel like they can be themselves, until they've gotten a little alcohol or weed in them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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marmel75

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She sounds like a nut job so yeah..
Hotness only goes so far
 

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I've known hot girls who were internet obsessed shut-ins so yeah it's possible to be lonely and attractive
 

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Yes. I know a hot girl who is an engineer. She pretty much just goes by herself. Likes to stay at home, play video games and watch anime. Proper loner.

Sometimes, it's because they haven't met anyone that strikes their fancy even though they get tons of attention from men.
 

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Batshït crazy with these emotional pet cases. I like how she's blaming the airline for flushing the pet. The head case herself FLUSHED her own "emotional" support pet.

Oh the irony.

The "lonely" part is believable but it's by her own choice. She's probably introverted.
 

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She must have a personality disorder or something. I could have found a home for that hamster, or another passenger to smuggle it on the plane for me, and probably done it in a few minutes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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