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Is it possible a girl ignores you cause she still likes you?

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Not necessarily. Again...more Beta coping. Maybe these girls just aren't physically attracted to you - and that's why they reject your date invite. Maybe something about you comes across as socially awkward when you ask them out.

I'm not arguing with you. Just having a back and forth conversation.
This just means they’re flirtatious, not attention *****s. Family man is right, to assume they are attention *****s just because they ghosted you says much more about you than them.
I'd listen to what Family Man is saying. You say you're a very attractive dude but yet girls ghost you all the time. It's very unlikely that ALL those women just want attention.
I wouldn't call any of this beta coping or anything like that. Something that many seem to forget on here is that women attain much of their validation through feeling how pretty/attractive they are. They get this from things like complements from other women but also from how much attention they can garner from men. Why do you think women like to dress up, especially in revealing outfits? Even if they are getting attention from men they aren't interested in, it still makes them feel good about themselves because they know they are desired.

There is an epsiode from the show "King of Queens" where Doug's wife begins to feel self conscious about aging and not being as attractive as she once was. Anyway, he pays these construction workers on a site to whistle and cat call her as she walks home from work. They do this and as she walks past she starts to smile, as she is still getting attention from men.

However, attention whoring is when women take this innate trait to a point where they are willing to lead men on, waste their time, etc. all so that they can get what they want, which is attention/validation. This is all with no consideration of how this behavior is affecting men. I'm disregarding women wasting time for things like free drinks, dinners, etc. If a woman is flirting with me and behaving in a way that suggests she is open to going out on a date, which we then schedule and she later flakes on......that is attention whoring. This woman enjoyed the free validation she was getting and behaving in a way that is leading on. If a woman you ask out rejects you but then continues to approach you and act flirtatiously.....again that is attention whoring. These women are behaving in a manner that is leading men on so that they can get what they want, attention/validation, without completely cutting him out/fully rejecting him. If she fully rejects a man then he is no longer a source of free attention/validation, so she behaves in a manner that does not completely eliminate this potential source.

Certainly not all women are like this, nor can I even say most of them are. However, women like this do in fact exist and they are quite common. From what I've experienced and observed, most of these women usually have some issues going on underneath and they are often times quite crazy. Some of these women are literally willing to do almost anything just to get attention, even if that means completely toying with a man or even putting themselves into very compromising situations. It's in a man's best interest to be able to recognize women like this very early on and cut them out immediately, as it's just a massive waste of your time and energy.
 

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I wouldn't call any of this beta coping or anything like that. Something that many seem to forget on here is that women attain much of their validation through feeling how pretty/attractive they are. They get this from things like complements from other women but also from how much attention they can garner from men. Why do you think women like to dress up, especially in revealing outfits? Even if they are getting attention from men they aren't interested in, it still makes them feel good about themselves because they know they are desired.

There is an epsiode from the show "King of Queens" where Doug's wife begins to feel self conscious about aging and not being as attractive as she once was. Anyway, he pays these construction workers on a site to whistle and cat call her as she walks home from work. They do this and as she walks past she starts to smile, as she is still getting attention from men.

However, attention whoring is when women take this innate trait to a point where they are willing to lead men on, waste their time, etc. all so that they can get what they want, which is attention/validation. This is all with no consideration of how this behavior is affecting men. I'm disregarding women wasting time for things like free drinks, dinners, etc. If a woman is flirting with me and behaving in a way that suggests she is open to going out on a date, which we then schedule and she later flakes on......that is attention whoring. This woman enjoyed the free validation she was getting and behaving in a way that is leading on. If a woman you ask out rejects you but then continues to approach you and act flirtatiously.....again that is attention whoring. These women are behaving in a manner that is leading men on so that they can get what they want, attention/validation, without completely cutting him out/fully rejecting him. If she fully rejects a man then he is no longer a source of free attention/validation, so she behaves in a manner that does not completely eliminate this potential source.

Certainly not all women are like this, nor can I even say most of them are. However, women like this do in fact exist and they are quite common. From what I've experienced and observed, most of these women usually have some issues going on underneath and they are often times quite crazy. Some of these women are literally willing to do almost anything just to get attention, even if that means completely toying with a man or even putting themselves into very compromising situations. It's in a man's best interest to be able to recognize women like this very early on and cut them out immediately, as it's just a massive waste of your time and energy.
So, you might as well not even try. Since most women are attention wh0res, right?

Playing the game sure beats staying inside your box and not even trying.
 

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So, you might as well not even try. Since most women are attention wh0res, right?

Playing the game sure beats staying inside your box and not even trying.
You are missing the point. If a woman is leading you and wasting your time you don't continue to try anything with her, she is an attention ***** and you cut her off.....simple. Too many men waste their time on no-low interest women, but most especially women that have this level of interest BUT are behaving in a manner that is confusing/leading on. Threads about women like this are made by men who either lack experience all together or those who haven't interacted with attention *****s at all. I don't know why you are arguing with this, messed up women like this are out there.
 

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You are missing the point. If a woman is leading you and wasting your time you don't continue to try anything with her, she is an attention ***** and you cut her off.....simple. Too many men waste their time on no-low interest women, but most especially women that have this level of interest BUT are behaving in a manner that is confusing/leading on. Threads about women like this are made by men who either lack experience all together or those who haven't interacted with attention *****s at all. I don't know why you are arguing with this, messed up women like this are out there.
You're intentionally ignoring MY point so you can get your talking points across.

I understand that they're out there, but that doesn't mean to not try to win the game.

The ONLY reason that a guy would call a certain girl an AW is because he shot his shot with her, and failed miserably. He commented on all her IG posts, spent $500 on her, and she denied him the booty at the end of all of it. Poor guy.

True players, with real game, end up smashing her in her hotel room her last night in town. Sure, she's an AW, but this guy found a way to make it happen with her.

Beta copes end up whining about the fact that she's an AW and b!tching on message boards about the fact that there are no good women out there.
 

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You're intentionally ignoring MY point so you can get your talking points across.

I understand that they're out there, but that doesn't mean to not try to win the game.

The ONLY reason that a guy would call a certain girl an AW is because he shot his shot with her, and failed miserably. He commented on all her IG posts, spent $500 on her, and she denied him the booty at the end of all of it. Poor guy.

True players, with real game, end up smashing her in her hotel room her last night in town. Sure, she's an AW, but this guy found a way to make it happen with her.

Beta copes end up whining about the fact that she's an AW and b!tching on message boards about the fact that there are no good women out there.
Right, true players with game continue to waste their time on attention *****s that are leading them on for nothing. You cut women like this out, move on and then focus your energy and time on women that are interested. Women that are actually interested don't lead you on, flake on dates the last minute, ghost you and then pop back in, etc. You don't try to convert these time wasters into being interested, I'm sure it's possible but very unlikely and therefore not something you should even consider. If you have other things going on, which you should, there should be no time or energy for low interest women and you move on.

I don't understand if you are a troll or not.
 

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Right, true players with game continue to waste their time on attention *****s that are leading them on for nothing. You cut women like this out, move on and then focus your energy and time on women that are interested. Women that are actually interested don't lead you on, flake on dates the last minute, ghost you and then pop back in, etc. You don't try to convert these time wasters into being interested, I'm sure it's possible but very unlikely and therefore not something you should even consider. If you have other things going on, which you should, there should be no time or energy for low interest women and you move on.

I don't understand if you are a troll or not.
Look dude, just because this happens to you all the time doesn't mean you have to assume this happens to many other men.

I do, infact, realize when somebody is wasting my time and isn't deserving of it. I'm done talking with you.

Thanks for the reminder.
 
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