Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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is it okay to call up numbers during the work-day

KneghtRyder

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between 9am - 5 pm

because i dont want to wait all day til 6 pm and find out that it was a flake or something.



any suggestions...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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spax said:
sms her instead.

i dont know, its easier to flake on an sms, and shes not in her teens..


btw, how many flakes percentage do you guys get on your number?
 

spax

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If shes gonna flake by sms, shes gonna flake by phone.
 

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com'on guys I need your opinions, because i m about to call in a few hours !
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd call during day. No messages. Then I'd call in the evening. I agree, SMS is for highschoolers - plus you paying money for a falsly thought risk safe and single dimentional conversation. She says she's busy, tell her to call you back.
 

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Night time is best, mid-week, preferably in the 9-10 pm range. This gives you the best chance of reaching her when she's not distracted.

Always call, don't mess around with that message crap.
 
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