"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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is it okay to call up numbers during the work-day

KneghtRyder

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between 9am - 5 pm

because i dont want to wait all day til 6 pm and find out that it was a flake or something.



any suggestions...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

KneghtRyder

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spax said:
sms her instead.

i dont know, its easier to flake on an sms, and shes not in her teens..


btw, how many flakes percentage do you guys get on your number?
 

spax

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If shes gonna flake by sms, shes gonna flake by phone.
 

KneghtRyder

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com'on guys I need your opinions, because i m about to call in a few hours !
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd call during day. No messages. Then I'd call in the evening. I agree, SMS is for highschoolers - plus you paying money for a falsly thought risk safe and single dimentional conversation. She says she's busy, tell her to call you back.
 

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Night time is best, mid-week, preferably in the 9-10 pm range. This gives you the best chance of reaching her when she's not distracted.

Always call, don't mess around with that message crap.
 
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