"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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is it okay to call up numbers during the work-day

KneghtRyder

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between 9am - 5 pm

because i dont want to wait all day til 6 pm and find out that it was a flake or something.



any suggestions...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KneghtRyder

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spax said:
sms her instead.

i dont know, its easier to flake on an sms, and shes not in her teens..


btw, how many flakes percentage do you guys get on your number?
 

spax

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If shes gonna flake by sms, shes gonna flake by phone.
 

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com'on guys I need your opinions, because i m about to call in a few hours !
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd call during day. No messages. Then I'd call in the evening. I agree, SMS is for highschoolers - plus you paying money for a falsly thought risk safe and single dimentional conversation. She says she's busy, tell her to call you back.
 

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Night time is best, mid-week, preferably in the 9-10 pm range. This gives you the best chance of reaching her when she's not distracted.

Always call, don't mess around with that message crap.
 
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