"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
is it ok to request her on facebook?
- Thread starter duke104
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Once you get to overanalysing things - like so many guys on the forum are - that's when you start letting trivial things ruin your entire "game". You spend the whole time worrying about trivial things to the point that you do nothing else useful at all!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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But I guess that's how you kids get down these days.
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Add her. And then wait a bit and hit her up whenever you feel like it.
Kailex
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And that's where I stopped reading...duke104 said:
That fragment is indicative of a LOT.
She's in one of your classes, which means constant contact with her... and you're wondering about adding her to your facebook instead of actually asking her (WHEN YOU CONSTANTLY SEE HER) for her number.
Look down.
You know, in between your legs.
Are your testicles still there?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What good does it do this guy to add her? What if she's the type that's never on Facebook? If this is the case, where does adding this girl get him? If this girl is big into Facebook, she'll make sure to add him if she's at all interested.BeyondCharm said:
kingsam
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1 - its a bit awkward if she delcines your freind request, if you dont know her well enough for her to acccpt
2- you lose all possible mysetry if you wanna see her/date/etc
3- you obviously think shes "ok" so get her no.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
All this never text/IM/Facebook stuff is simply behind the times. I know girls that pretty much don't answer the phone (they barely even buy airtime minutes) regardless of who's calling, but they will gladly text. Most people want to be somewhere private, quiet, and not busy before they want to answer a personal call, where as they can discretely text anywhere, any time, at their convenience. As for lacking balls, in some ways it takes more - if you say something risky and it totally flops, it's a lot harder to smoothly back out of it when she has the message stored.
I've also managed to set up dates and sleep with girls who I've never spoken to on the phone, purely in person and then follow up online or by text.
Good or bad, when not in person young people prefer non-spoken communication these days.
Anyway, just add her, but don't be a tool about it. If there's some event/party you're organizing you can send her an invite, and chat a bit if you have something to say, but don't be a loser who's always on her profile 'liking' everything and commenting on every photo.
Brilliant! Finally somebody posted something worthy in this worthless thread.Kailex said:
Moses and John Wayne must be turning over in their graves at the worthless excuse for men we have in this world. I mean really you asking us for advice about adding a girl on facebook when you should be instead asking us for advice on how to conquer this girl and make her yours.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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duke104 said:
No it is not okay. You are a pvssy and your permission to add her on facebook has been denied.
Seriously though, do you want to add her just so you can jack off to her photos?
Because she is in your class already, so talking to her shouldn't be an issue. Why are you, as a "man", asking PERMISSION from us random morons whether you can add a chick on facebook........you are a MAN, do whatever the **** you want to do!!!