"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
is it ok to request her on facebook?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Once you get to overanalysing things - like so many guys on the forum are - that's when you start letting trivial things ruin your entire "game". You spend the whole time worrying about trivial things to the point that you do nothing else useful at all!
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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But I guess that's how you kids get down these days.
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Add her. And then wait a bit and hit her up whenever you feel like it.
Kailex
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And that's where I stopped reading...duke104 said:
That fragment is indicative of a LOT.
She's in one of your classes, which means constant contact with her... and you're wondering about adding her to your facebook instead of actually asking her (WHEN YOU CONSTANTLY SEE HER) for her number.
Look down.
You know, in between your legs.
Are your testicles still there?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What good does it do this guy to add her? What if she's the type that's never on Facebook? If this is the case, where does adding this girl get him? If this girl is big into Facebook, she'll make sure to add him if she's at all interested.BeyondCharm said:
kingsam
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1 - its a bit awkward if she delcines your freind request, if you dont know her well enough for her to acccpt
2- you lose all possible mysetry if you wanna see her/date/etc
3- you obviously think shes "ok" so get her no.
SmoothTalker
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All this never text/IM/Facebook stuff is simply behind the times. I know girls that pretty much don't answer the phone (they barely even buy airtime minutes) regardless of who's calling, but they will gladly text. Most people want to be somewhere private, quiet, and not busy before they want to answer a personal call, where as they can discretely text anywhere, any time, at their convenience. As for lacking balls, in some ways it takes more - if you say something risky and it totally flops, it's a lot harder to smoothly back out of it when she has the message stored.
I've also managed to set up dates and sleep with girls who I've never spoken to on the phone, purely in person and then follow up online or by text.
Good or bad, when not in person young people prefer non-spoken communication these days.
Anyway, just add her, but don't be a tool about it. If there's some event/party you're organizing you can send her an invite, and chat a bit if you have something to say, but don't be a loser who's always on her profile 'liking' everything and commenting on every photo.
Brilliant! Finally somebody posted something worthy in this worthless thread.Kailex said:
Moses and John Wayne must be turning over in their graves at the worthless excuse for men we have in this world. I mean really you asking us for advice about adding a girl on facebook when you should be instead asking us for advice on how to conquer this girl and make her yours.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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duke104 said:
No it is not okay. You are a pvssy and your permission to add her on facebook has been denied.
Seriously though, do you want to add her just so you can jack off to her photos?
Because she is in your class already, so talking to her shouldn't be an issue. Why are you, as a "man", asking PERMISSION from us random morons whether you can add a chick on facebook........you are a MAN, do whatever the **** you want to do!!!