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is it ok to call her friend??

saber

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My two friends who are dating hooked me up with this one chick....I got shut out with lmr and it seemed kinda odd after that

i got her number but I was gonna call my friend(the girl of the two) to see why this may have happened

is it a good/bad idea to try n dig up some info to see where i went wrong?
 

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Horrible idea. She'll definitely run to the girl who rejected you and laugh their asses off about how crippled you are over the rejection. Women are like this.

Just take a step back and read the situation. If you need to, explain on here so maybe someone can point out what you may have done wrong. But don't try to force things. If she is not interested in you at the moment, or at all, the only thing you can do is lay off and improve yourself.
 

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WC2 said:
Horrible idea. She'll definitely run to the girl who rejected you and laugh their asses off about how crippled you are over the rejection. Women are like this.
you're being paranoid. only way the girl will start trippin is if the guy was a loser to begin with, which if that was the case, she wouldn't have hooked the guy up with HER friend

call her and ask her. you'll figure out what you did wrong and learn from it. freakin easy way to troubleshoot and figure out how you came across

female friends who actually care about you and are wise on the game make great pivots
 
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