"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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is it ok to call her friend??

saber

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My two friends who are dating hooked me up with this one chick....I got shut out with lmr and it seemed kinda odd after that

i got her number but I was gonna call my friend(the girl of the two) to see why this may have happened

is it a good/bad idea to try n dig up some info to see where i went wrong?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WC2

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Horrible idea. She'll definitely run to the girl who rejected you and laugh their asses off about how crippled you are over the rejection. Women are like this.

Just take a step back and read the situation. If you need to, explain on here so maybe someone can point out what you may have done wrong. But don't try to force things. If she is not interested in you at the moment, or at all, the only thing you can do is lay off and improve yourself.
 

ready123

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WC2 said:
Horrible idea. She'll definitely run to the girl who rejected you and laugh their asses off about how crippled you are over the rejection. Women are like this.
you're being paranoid. only way the girl will start trippin is if the guy was a loser to begin with, which if that was the case, she wouldn't have hooked the guy up with HER friend

call her and ask her. you'll figure out what you did wrong and learn from it. freakin easy way to troubleshoot and figure out how you came across

female friends who actually care about you and are wise on the game make great pivots
 
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