"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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is it ok to call her friend??

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My two friends who are dating hooked me up with this one chick....I got shut out with lmr and it seemed kinda odd after that

i got her number but I was gonna call my friend(the girl of the two) to see why this may have happened

is it a good/bad idea to try n dig up some info to see where i went wrong?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Horrible idea. She'll definitely run to the girl who rejected you and laugh their asses off about how crippled you are over the rejection. Women are like this.

Just take a step back and read the situation. If you need to, explain on here so maybe someone can point out what you may have done wrong. But don't try to force things. If she is not interested in you at the moment, or at all, the only thing you can do is lay off and improve yourself.
 
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WC2 said:
Horrible idea. She'll definitely run to the girl who rejected you and laugh their asses off about how crippled you are over the rejection. Women are like this.
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you're being paranoid. only way the girl will start trippin is if the guy was a loser to begin with, which if that was the case, she wouldn't have hooked the guy up with HER friend

call her and ask her. you'll figure out what you did wrong and learn from it. freakin easy way to troubleshoot and figure out how you came across

female friends who actually care about you and are wise on the game make great pivots
 
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