"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is it ok to call her friend??

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My two friends who are dating hooked me up with this one chick....I got shut out with lmr and it seemed kinda odd after that

i got her number but I was gonna call my friend(the girl of the two) to see why this may have happened

is it a good/bad idea to try n dig up some info to see where i went wrong?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Horrible idea. She'll definitely run to the girl who rejected you and laugh their asses off about how crippled you are over the rejection. Women are like this.

Just take a step back and read the situation. If you need to, explain on here so maybe someone can point out what you may have done wrong. But don't try to force things. If she is not interested in you at the moment, or at all, the only thing you can do is lay off and improve yourself.
 
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WC2 said:
Horrible idea. She'll definitely run to the girl who rejected you and laugh their asses off about how crippled you are over the rejection. Women are like this.
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you're being paranoid. only way the girl will start trippin is if the guy was a loser to begin with, which if that was the case, she wouldn't have hooked the guy up with HER friend

call her and ask her. you'll figure out what you did wrong and learn from it. freakin easy way to troubleshoot and figure out how you came across

female friends who actually care about you and are wise on the game make great pivots
 
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