"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Is it OK if I flirt?"

Leporello

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I was talking to my gf tonight, and she ws telling me about an activism conference she'll be attending over winter break. It's in a hotel, and she's not 21, and she asked me "Is it ok if I flirt with people so they'll buy be drinks? As long as nothing happens?"

I'm not sure why she asked me; but the fact that she did is encouraging, I guess.

Anyway, what do the rest of you think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maverick001

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Originally posted by Leporello
I was talking to my gf tonight, and she ws telling me about an activism conference she'll be attending over winter break. It's in a hotel, and she's not 21, and she asked me "Is it ok if I flirt with people so they'll buy be drinks? As long as nothing happens?"

I'm not sure why she asked me; but the fact that she did is encouraging, I guess.

Anyway, what do the rest of you think?
You`re kidding right? Your girl`s going to a conference and wants to drink (being underage) by enticing guys to buy her drinks and then tries to qualify it by saying, "As long as nothing happens?" And then she`s asking for your permission to do it?! Mmmm, sounds like she wants to not take responsibility and get blamed for doing something that she would otherwise.

There`s nothing encouraging about it. Are you going to be there at this conference? No? It seems to me that she`s telegraphing that she wants something to happen. "Oh sorry honey, I guess I had one too many and I don`t know/remember what happened".

Do you really want to hear that from her?

Also, how honest and trustworthy could she be if she wants to scam drinks off of other guys. Come on young bro. Something`s off here.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 
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SDBmania

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I also agree with the above posters. It could also be a test, to see what you will do. But, otherwise I'd say she's giving you a red flag.
 

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THREAD JACK!

What do you think about a girl proposing a game seeing who can get attract the most attention from the opposite sex? not a gf, but heading that way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fvck that. Who even asks such a question in a relationship.

I would say get rid of her.

Or, ask if its ok while she is out you and your buddies go to a club and bar and you do the same thing. If its ok she does it, then its ok you do it.
 

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You people are retarded. Last time I ever post here.
 

Bourne

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So you came looking for a certain type of response and you didn't get it.

You won't be missed.

Peace out.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by Bourne
So you came looking for a certain type of response and you didn't get it.

You won't be missed.

Peace out.
ditto.

Mods, please close thread, no point posting anymore, this guy says he is out.
 

Leporello

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I just thought it might be nice to hear from people who had ANY experience with women.

No such luck.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wavejams007

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Originally posted by Leporello
I just thought it might be nice to hear from people who had ANY experience with women.

No such luck.
insults and crude observations make you immature.

as to your question, you are setting yourself up for problems with other guys getting her attention. This will test your trust, but it is the wrong type of test to do.
 

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Just it sounds like to most of us, she is looking for an excuse to cheat.
 
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