Is It Ok If GF Getting A Massage From A Man?

[soulforge]

Here is the problem... When I give her a massage, she tells me that she feels like she will c.u.m

So why should I believe the other guy won't make her feel like that

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Here is the problem... When I give her a massage, she tells me that she feels like she will c.u.m

So why should I believe the other guy won't make her feel like that

Then your girl is a Nymphomaniac, and you have bigger problems to be worried about. Forget the massage lol. I have never climaxed during a massage session, and I have a borderline sex addiction. At most, I get a huge hard on and go home and fvck my girl or I fap lol.

 

[corsica]

WTF?

Why does she needs to be massaged by another dude? Aren't you giving her some?

 

[EyeBRollin]

At this point, don't let your GF go to the Dentist because the Dentist could be some Chad that secretly schedules threesomes with him and his Dental Assistant with his patients. Every working professional is a sex worker on the side.

Silly comparison. A dentist occupation doesn’t involve spending an hour rubbing your woman’s body down from head to toe.

Again, why should I voluntarily assume that risk? For what reason?

 

[soulforge]

Then your girl is a Nymphomaniac, and you have bigger problems to be worried about. Forget the massage lol. I have never climaxed during a massage session, and I have a borderline sex addiction. At most, I get a huge hard on and go home and fvck my girl or I fap lol.

She might be talking crap... But the fact that she said that is worrying, especially when another man massages her

 

[soulforge]

WTF?

Why does she needs to be massaged by another dude? Aren't you giving her some?

I do give her a massage but she claims to have a bad back at moment

 

[Dr.Suave]

If she has a legit problem she should go to a chiropractor or traumatologist, not get a massage from Chad.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

If you are asking it means you find yourself something wrong in it.

You wouldnt be asking if she had a gay guy fixing her hair.

 

[Machine10033]

So would you be ok with a dude massaging your girlfriend?

No.... I don’t want some dude massaging my girlfriend.....

On the flip side... I don’t want any dude massaging me... so it’s across the board ... unless the dude is a chiropractor or physical therapist.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

She might be talking crap... But the fact that she said that is worrying, especially when another man massages her

I think she was trolling you lol. I say shvt like that all of the time lol.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

No.... I don’t want some dude massaging my girlfriend.....

On the flip side... I don’t want any dude massaging me... so it’s across the board ... unless the dude is a chiropractor or physical therapist.

I am only comfortable with a female massaging me especially since I go in full nude, but a male masseuse can apply more pressure than a female, so I am kind of jealous of that. Nonetheless, I still will never do it lol.

 

[SW15]

I can have the most secure locking system in the world on my Lamborghini and I’m still not parking it on the street in the hood.

You can't control every single interaction. Are you going to stop the hot guy she runs into at work, at the gas station, at happy hour, etc. You better keep her locked up at home.

Whatever happens is going to happen. If she decides to cross the line, the sooner you find out the better.

Trust is a key component for every successful relationship. Lack of trust in the example above is more a reflection on you, not her.

I've quoted both of these because they are both good points.

A male masseur is a danger. In most cases, it wouldn't amount to anything, but it does have risk.

One can use the same logic on a male masseur further. Male personal trainers have been known to have sex with clients.

What about the grocery store, the mall, the bookstore, a park, or a walking/hiking path? Suave approachers like some of us have been known to go these places and meet women.

There's a subjective line at some point. Every man has to determine where his line is in a relationship.

 

[HaleyBaron]

How do you guys feel about your Girlfriend getting a body massage, by a male masseuse?

I know the masseuse, he's a good looking guy, however he is getting married soon and has a woman.

The only thing that concerns me is this... From time to time I massage my chicks neck and she tells me that she feels like she is about to c.u.m haha because it feels that good

So would you be ok with a dude massaging your girlfriend?

Every guy should watch Eddie Murphy's old comedy show:

 

[SW15]

Every guy should watch Eddie Murphy's old comedy show:

Females traveling alone while in committed relationships is not a good sign. The destination matters too. The thread below is the same thing as Eddie Murphy's bit 35-40 years ago.

If your girlfriend or wife takes a trip to Miami, bad news.

I cannot say this of other major cities, not even NYC, but it seems like women come to Miami solely to cheat on their husbands or boyfriends.

www.sosuave.net

 

[ThisIsSparta]

If OP's friend pulled any move on his Girl, this could cost him his career/even jail time more than likely.

It could also be the girl making the move. In the end it doesnt matter who makes the move or if no one moves at all.
What matters is the girl knowing that she isnt getting away with other men fumbling her ass.

If nothing else its a good opportunity to remind her of the frame and keep her on her toes.

 

[Murk]

I’ve been to a few massages. My last was a year ago in Miami, some Chinese woman blasted my back I felt like I’d been in a fight for 3-4 days after.

She let me grab her non existent arse and tits while she tossed me off, she paused to greet a customer and tell him to wait in the other room, then came back and I nutted all over her hands. Whole thing cost me $90. At the time I wished I saw an escort instead but the massage was really good and I recorded the whole thing secretly with my phone on my coat propped up on a chair in the corner.

I told my girl I got a massage and the lady wanked me off she said nothing.

I wouldn’t let a gf let a man massage her unless it was necessary, back in the day a girlfriend had scoliosis with a metal rod in her back so she needed regularly massages. I’m actually highly trained at massage so can do a job when needed.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

It could also be the girl making the move. In the end it doesnt matter who makes the move or if no one moves at all.
What matters is the girl knowing that she isnt getting away with other men fumbling her ass.

If nothing else its a good opportunity to remind her of the frame and keep her on her toes.

So Op’s GF is a nymphomaniac that will cheat at any given opportunity and his friend is so shvtty that he will risk throwing away his career and jail time to fvck his friend’s GF.

Sounds like OP needs to reevaluate his close friends

 

[ThisIsSparta]

So Op’s GF is a nymphomaniac that will cheat at any given opportunity and his friend is so shvtty that he will risk throwing away his career and jail time to fvck his friend’s GF.

Sounds like OP needs to reevaluate his close friends

A $ for each mans girl that got plowed by the "close friend" or "family member" and youd be a rich man!

A "close friend" rubbing my naked woman is already outside of any acceptable frame and if a "close friend" steps over this line i´am done with him.

There either is a frame all the time or there is no frame at all. No exceptions!

If you let things like that slide, you set yourself up to being cucked.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

A $ for each mans girl that got plowed by the "close friend" or "family member" and youd be a rich man!

A "close friend" rubbing my naked woman is already outside of any acceptable frame and if a "close friend" steps over this line i´am done with him.

There either is a frame all the time or there is no frame at all. No exceptions!

If you let things like that slide, you set yourself up to being cucked.

Sounds like you have shvtty friends too lol. One of the best decisions of my life was dumping all of the toxic friends out of my life. Sure I have way less friends now, but it was so worth ittttt.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Sounds like you have shvtty friends too lol. One of the best decisions of my life was dumping all of the toxic friends out of my life. Sure I have way less friends now, but it was so worth ittttt.

I made my experiences with backstabbers over the years and saw things happen to other guys and friends/family members.

The number of real friends around shrinks the older you get anyway. Might as well weed the azzholes out early.