"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it normal for wealthy men to be polygynous?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about this formerly wealthy man that evidently has 4 different mothers of his children, and a fiancee half his age, and it made me think.

http://finance.yahoo.com/news/broke-sick-lonely-stanford-heads-122429951.html

Of course, I suppose that he is also a cad, as he ripped off so many folks (to get his money!) Evidently, he is a jailhouse brawler as well

He was injured in a jailhouse brawl in 2009 ...
- so maybe it's his cad-ness that makes him want to be polygynous, but his wealth that allowed him to actually carry his desire out.

Stanford lavished the women in his life with trips on private jets, luxury homes and, in one instance, spousal support payments of $100,000 per month, according to court documents.
Court records from a 2007 paternity case, that was settled, showed Stanford also paid about $150,000 a year in child support for two other children who lived with their mother in a $10 million house in Florida.
Ouch! No wonder he had to keep his scam going!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zarky said:
Corrected. Yes. Rich men just have more resources to pull it off. Players/DJs/alphas are also able to pull it off.
So you are saying that all men would prefer to be polygynous, if possible. I guess that because I have a difficult type acquiring only *one* quality female, I can't fathom juggling multiple ones. But then, I could see if I had some sort of fame, power or wealth, that quality women would make their presence known to me - like the way that low quality women like fatties and, for example, the redneck chick across the street that just called me "sexy" :cool:, make their presence to me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Being rich doesn't change you....it just lets the real you come out. IF you have serious money in the bank,say 200 million and know how to make more. If the wife divorces you and takes half? big deal, I'll make it back and marry younger and cuter with a prenup. When you aren't the boss, you have to skip saying some things you'd like to,when you are the boss...say it if you feel like it.
 

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I personally think a good marriage is the sh!t and guys are better off for them.

But polygamy isn't our natural state. And I think the occasional dip is in our nature. It should be safe and secure though and rare. The rarer the better since regularity builds familiarity and feelings.
 
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