"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is it normal for wealthy men to be polygynous?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about this formerly wealthy man that evidently has 4 different mothers of his children, and a fiancee half his age, and it made me think.

http://finance.yahoo.com/news/broke-sick-lonely-stanford-heads-122429951.html

Of course, I suppose that he is also a cad, as he ripped off so many folks (to get his money!) Evidently, he is a jailhouse brawler as well

He was injured in a jailhouse brawl in 2009 ...
- so maybe it's his cad-ness that makes him want to be polygynous, but his wealth that allowed him to actually carry his desire out.

Stanford lavished the women in his life with trips on private jets, luxury homes and, in one instance, spousal support payments of $100,000 per month, according to court documents.
Court records from a 2007 paternity case, that was settled, showed Stanford also paid about $150,000 a year in child support for two other children who lived with their mother in a $10 million house in Florida.
Ouch! No wonder he had to keep his scam going!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MatureDJ

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Zarky said:
Corrected. Yes. Rich men just have more resources to pull it off. Players/DJs/alphas are also able to pull it off.
So you are saying that all men would prefer to be polygynous, if possible. I guess that because I have a difficult type acquiring only *one* quality female, I can't fathom juggling multiple ones. But then, I could see if I had some sort of fame, power or wealth, that quality women would make their presence known to me - like the way that low quality women like fatties and, for example, the redneck chick across the street that just called me "sexy" :cool:, make their presence to me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sodbuster

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Being rich doesn't change you....it just lets the real you come out. IF you have serious money in the bank,say 200 million and know how to make more. If the wife divorces you and takes half? big deal, I'll make it back and marry younger and cuter with a prenup. When you aren't the boss, you have to skip saying some things you'd like to,when you are the boss...say it if you feel like it.
 

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I personally think a good marriage is the sh!t and guys are better off for them.

But polygamy isn't our natural state. And I think the occasional dip is in our nature. It should be safe and secure though and rare. The rarer the better since regularity builds familiarity and feelings.
 
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