Is it normal for most 1st dates to be a complete waste of time

[mrgoodstuff]

You should at least get the feedback that she's into you or liking to be around you in that first date.

 

[derby1]

It's really easy for me to get a date, but usually the girl ghosts me or tells me we don't have a romantic connection afterwards. I'll even have girls flirt with me, pay my food, tell me when they can meet up again, but still be unable to get a scond date out of them. Is this normal?

1). I live in the suburbs currently, so doing anything near my place or asking her to come to my place is out of the question because most women I meet live in the city. As a result, I have to always pick a place near them lol.....BLAH BLAH I can't do anything about this right now until my lease ends and I get everything straightened up.

2). Usually I meet up at bars or pubs for a drink at most.

OP what you have to understand is most quality women are in LTR's.

I mentioned recently I have got 10 women out in the last 3 months,

3 of which were insane AW's.
3 were not quality
9 had Solipsism

1, I had high hopes for and she was on a "break" then rebounded back.

Women are quite strange in the annoying fact they will pursue you, then ghost you, as if you were the one being needy

social media has over cooked their minds. they have the attention span of a toddler

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Once I can actually get a girl to conform to set plans and show up for the date, it's rarely a waste of time. But actually getting them to show up definitely tends to be a waste. I've taken to asking them out pretty much immediately and giving them 1 chance.