"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it normal for a mistress to term the wife as a "witch"?

MatureDJ

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slatest.slate.com/posts/2012/06/18/rielle_hunter_what_really_happened_john_edwards_mistress_pens_tell_all_book_.html

It seems to me that this is just a case of heat of the moment competitive disgust in not being able to be the official Mrs. to the Alpha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who Dares Win

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Its not only normal, its actually the rule and the same things happen when a man is in deep contact with his mom and the wife cant stand it( or the opposite not sure).
 

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Yes. Even most of your sluttiest mistresses don't really like being the other woman for that long. Eventually they want to be the only one. They obviously can't resent YOU because you're the one they want, they can only start resenting their obstacles.

That's why, if you're married, it's easier to pay for play. Sleazier but easier.
 
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